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THE MOMMY FILES: Is it cruel to put a 5-year-old boy in pink bib tops?
San Francisco Chronicle ^ | 12/30/9 | Amy Graff

Posted on 12/30/2009 5:41:49 PM PST by SmithL

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To: SmithL

Good Lord, did she bother to ask the child how he felt about wearing pink? Nine will get you ten the freaked out father had already trained his brain about the color of pink and he would be uncomfortable in it.

Also take into consideration that OTHER children will have ideas about the color pink on males and children are notoriously cruel to each other at times. If money is a factor, yes, dye them navy or black and pick the flowerdy sew on’s off...problem solved.

I only had one of each gender six years apart, so hand-me-downs were out. They both got to pick out their own clothes because I was just set on the idea that THEY had to be comfortable in them, not me. I never dressed my daughter in fru fru pink in the first place...she hated it. To this day she doesn’t do fru fru. She and I must both be genetically wired for tailored and understated clothing.


41 posted on 12/30/2009 6:22:17 PM PST by RowdyFFC (The opinion of a wise Welshtino woman...)
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To: SmithL

You live in San Francisco. What could go wrong?


42 posted on 12/30/2009 6:22:19 PM PST by Texas Eagle (If it wasn't for double-standards, Liberals would have no standards at all. -- Texas Eagle)
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To: SmithL

I would airbrush the outside red; it wouldn’t cost much and it would still be colorful out on the bunny slope. A black racing stripe might be fun. It would be okay for a girl, too. This is the last year the boy will have to worry about this one, at least.


43 posted on 12/30/2009 6:22:39 PM PST by skr (May God confound the enemy)
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To: SmithL

Pink really is for girls,sorry guys.


44 posted on 12/30/2009 6:27:25 PM PST by linn37 ( "The problem with socialism is that you eventually run out of other peoples money.)
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To: Texas Eagle

LMAO!


45 posted on 12/30/2009 6:29:36 PM PST by RowdyFFC (The opinion of a wise Welshtino woman...)
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To: SmithL

And that is apparently why liberal men are such pantywaists. Their parents think it’s a bad thing to let them differentiate themselves from females, or to dress or behave according to their natural inclinations (every little boy I have ever known makes “guns” out of straws, branches, playdough, or if all else fails, their fingers!) My 4 and 6 year old nephews would pitch an almighty fit if my sister in law tried to put anything girlie on them. And rightly so! I personally would be embarassed to take my son out on the slopes in that sissy outfit - and even my 16 year old daughter would sooner ski in jeans, or even shorts, than wear that getup.


46 posted on 12/30/2009 6:30:01 PM PST by VRWCer (“Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, W Churchill)
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To: edpc

I agree with the husband. It would be cruel to dress a boy in that outfit.

I had a similar experinece when I was a child. Until I was about five, I had long hair; so it was obvious I was a girl, even though I was tomboy and hated to wear ruffles and dresses. Then my Mom got tired of taking care of my hair and imposed the awful “Dorothy Hamill” haircut on me. Now I was a tomboy who looked like a boy. Mom still insists that I looked cute, but I remember people addressing me as “little boy” and asking my parents “how old is he.” It bugs me to this day, and I still can’t stand Dorothy Hamill.


47 posted on 12/30/2009 6:32:02 PM PST by Huntress (Who the hell are you to tell me what's in my best interests?)
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To: SmithL
We're going to the snow next month.

I'm going to the barf bag right now.

48 posted on 12/30/2009 6:34:07 PM PST by 6SJ7 (atlasShruggedInd = TRUE)
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To: jla
Pink is a female color. I'm not saying that guys who don pink clothes are not straight but they do look faggy.

Unless their nick name is "the Bull Dog" and their last name is "Gambini."

Just sayin...

49 posted on 12/30/2009 6:42:51 PM PST by Grizzled Bear (Does not play well with others.)
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To: SmithL

My 10 year old son, I joke with him that I will get him a pink outfit and he says, “no way !!!” and then I tell him, “good, I am glad you feel like that” - he is a normal boy ! I am already training him to be a homophobe as well. He has some interest in girls but not too much yet. He mentioned to me there is one boy who wears purple/pink outfit and he mentioned the kid is attracted not only to girls but also boys. I tell him that is wrong for the boy to be attracted to boys.


50 posted on 12/30/2009 6:48:43 PM PST by CORedneck
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To: SmithL
When my husband was 7 years old, his family went to Kauai. He forgot to pack his swimsuit for the trip and his dad and stepmom punished him for his forgetfulness (because 7-year-olds are so forgetful) by forcing him to wear his skivvies to the beach.

My husband must have been emotionally scarred by the incident because he tells this story often, and not to make people laugh, but as an example of child cruelty.

The husban's father and stepmom were cruel AND selfish, clueless and irresponsible people who punished a seven year old for their lapse in parental oversight.

Who leaves a seven year old to pack for himself without double checking it? They were cheap sob's too, who didn't want to rectify their mistake by buying him new trunks in Hawaii.

You bet the husband is scarred. He was hurt by a selfish lazy stepbitch who blamed him for her mistake and a stupid prick of a father who was more interested in keeping his new peice of ass happy, at his son's expense.

Now the author wants to keep this wound open by dressing up the son in big sisters hot pink pants in the name of frugalality and uber-hip feminist pop psychology.

51 posted on 12/30/2009 6:51:46 PM PST by Valpal1 ("All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.")
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To: jla
"In Western culture, the practice of assigning pink to an individual gender began in the 1920s. From then until the 1940s, pink was considered appropriate for boys because being related to red it was the more masculine and decided color, while blue was considered appropriate for girls because it was the more delicate and dainty color, or related to the Virgin Mary. Since the 1940s, the societal norm apparently inverted so that pink became appropriate for girls and blue appropriate for boys, a practice that has continued into the 21st century."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pink#Pink_in_gender

52 posted on 12/30/2009 6:51:46 PM PST by Sofia
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To: hinckley buzzard

**going to the snow***??? omg i’m roflmao i never heard of such a saying. i’m going to pass this around to fellow Vermonters


53 posted on 12/30/2009 6:54:40 PM PST by MissDairyGoodnessVT (Free Nobel Peace Prize with every oil change =^..^=)
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To: Carley

Yes, it was from some San Fran web site.


54 posted on 12/30/2009 6:54:56 PM PST by Texas56
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To: 6SJ7

lmao...I thought the same thing.


55 posted on 12/30/2009 6:55:34 PM PST by teenyelliott (Insanity - voting the current two party system over and over, expecting different results.)
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To: Sofia
Sofia - I love this name.

Pink though, is for girls. :^)

56 posted on 12/30/2009 6:59:21 PM PST by jla ("Free Republic is Palin Country" - JimRob)
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To: Grizzled Bear
Unless their nick name is "the Bull Dog" and their last name is "Gambini."

Gay mafia.

57 posted on 12/30/2009 7:00:17 PM PST by jla ("Free Republic is Palin Country" - JimRob)
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To: MissDairyGoodnessVT
I thought it was a typo until I saw that she used the idiotic phrase twice.

That along with the "locked in a gender cage" statement told me pretty quickly what kind of a dimwit wrote this article.

58 posted on 12/30/2009 7:00:56 PM PST by teenyelliott (Insanity - voting the current two party system over and over, expecting different results.)
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To: SmithL

Young children vacationing in Hawaii, ski-trips and trendy snow suits that will used once and outgrown.

Does this vacant, self-centered nitwit think anyone cares what color clothes her spoiled little monsters wear?


59 posted on 12/30/2009 7:06:23 PM PST by primeval patriot
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To: Texas56

What drivel. Think about the good people out of work and this dingbat has a job.

Blech.


60 posted on 12/30/2009 7:10:23 PM PST by Carley (OBAMA IS A MALEVOLENT FORCE IN THE WORLD)
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