I had babies at 23 and 26, and when the nest was empting out, we adopted 2 from China. We are now 51 and 50 with a 6 and 8 yr old still at home.
I was raised by foster grandparents - I was 2 when they took me - they were 60 and 62. I was in my 40’s by the time they passed away.
My 25 yr old daughter has a 4 yr old and 10 month old. She could be in a car accident tomorrow and I would outlive her.
There are no guarantees in this life.
That said, I do think trying to outwit God designed biology is arrogant and risky. If the desire for children is there, there are thousands in need of a home. Then plan for their future as if you won’t be there. Actually, do that no matter how old (or young) you are.
I completely agree. Millions of women who have died from pregnancy and birth related complications are testament to the fact that there are no guarantees. Life isn’t always fair.
You are a very blessed person, and I commend you on raising 2 more children at your age. I am older than you by a few years, and full of health problems, so child raising is out of the question for my wife and I. But, my pastor is 73 and in great shape and full of energy. He and his wife of age 69 are raising 2 grands, age 14 and 8. They are doing a great job. I wish that I had his health and energy!