My mom had some problems, probably stemming from a very difficult delivery(me}. Dad treated her like gold. I used to have to dive on my kids and take the kicks and punches from their father. I was threatened into not leaving. All the lies and broken promises, but he is acting out the threats. Too bad he's like a greased pig. The kids still at home took a vote to go to a shelter 5 yrs ago, but they were full. Finally was able to get a divorce, not that it did me much good. I just say a lot of prayers for peace, and for my health to get better.
I think the cops might actually do something for this woman and her son. I pray that that monster gets put away for a long, long time.
I am very sorry you had to go through all of that. I know it never leaves you. I had a horrible childhood and I think thats why I am the person I am today...I will keep you in my prayers ~Pandora~