No fifty year old men like 17-18 year old girls? Or vice versa? Why is this a "homosexual problem?"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=221x41511
They are correct in that Foley was not engaged in pedophilia. The pages were hardly prepubescent. Other then the power difference, they saw nothing wrong, age difference notwithstanding.
And that is an excellent example of what the author is trying to say. Our culture has rules for relationships between men and women. Few tolerate a 50 yr. old man hitting on a 16 yr. old girl. We send them to prison. When Gerry Studds took a 17 yr. old boy to Europe for a sexual escapade, he was rewarded with reelection multiple times.
In England there was a referendum to lower the age of consent for gay boys to 14, stating that they we more sexualized then straight young men. I don't think it past. But in gay circles, most of the sexual moors that we take for granted do not apply.
Straight healthy sex culminates after a friendship evolves to love and is the celebration of that relationship. Ultimately, it brings about a family.
Gay sex is about sexual gratification.