That's the big issue: the guys the average woman deems "suitable" are desired by multiple women.
A 30 year old guy with good income, tall, and physically fit will not be interested in the average 30yo career woman, when he can get a cute 22yo.
Young Women today by and large are utterly unrealistic.
The data out of Dating apps shows the reality... Women are absolutely insane. Women “swiping” men isn’t a bell curve, its 90% for the same 10% of men.. So for all their lecturing about men being superficial, reality is women are far far far more superficial than men.
SO those 10% of guys, know they can get whatever they want and have unlimited choices, so no way they are going to settle down with anything less than top shelf, if ever, and these foolish women even if they get one for a little while seem oblivious to the fact they will NEVER be the one who is going to get them long term... and write off 90% of guys who out of the gate.
Women who are 6’s think they deserve a 9 or 10 and won’t even give someone who isn’t a shot. They have deluded themselves into thinking because they can bed a 9 or 10 who’s slumming, means that’s the kind of man they can marry... The data is absolutely unmistakable.
Go watch Pearly Things when she interviews these young women, they are absolutely certifiable.
You have morbidly obese 24 year olds who think they are a 10.... They don’t cook, clean, or anything else, they bring literally nothing to the table but a pair of boobs and a few holes (often well worn) and think that makes them a catch, but they expect a man who’s making 300k or more a year at 25, and is 6’2 and a college athlete and x and y and z... They are just insane.
If you are an average young man, with a promising future, and in your early to mid 20s, you won’t be given the time of day by these women because they expect they can get someone who is in the top less than 1% of men... It’s absolutely insane.
Just because you can post a bikini pic on social media and get lots of folks fawning over it, doesn’t make you marriage material, hell it may not even make you date material... Just because you can get lots of guys in bed doesn’t mean you are a catch....
There are still some sane young women out there, but there is absolutely no doubt in my mind a huge majority of young women are not worth the time of day from a partnership perspective.