Women are looking for the 3 sixes.
Six feet tall
Six figure income
Six pack abs.
They think they ‘deserve’ it.
I remember a FReeper post from a long time ago. He wrote that he talked to a woman and asked her what she wanted in a man. She gave a long description of all the things he should be. Ok, then he asked, what does he get for all this? She said: “He gets me”
Yes, the average women all think they deserve top-5% men. (Only 14% of men over 6 feet, and of those only a small fraction are making 6 figures at 30, so the 6-6-6 guys are maybe 1% of the males)
Whereas men are looking for one thing only. And nowdays they have little trouble finding it.
And if you ask them what they think a quality man “deserves” ... crickets.