My beloved brother was raped by a priest at the age of 7 and emotionally abused by my dad. Just before he died of AIDS he said “All I was ever wanted to do was be loved.”
Sums up the human condition. Abuse and trauma send some into the dark world of homosexuality. I have yet to meet a homosexual (and I know many) who does not have a significant pain/trauma/abuse in their past, contributing to their condition.
Homosexuality is really just eroticized same-sex emotional needs, which every healthy man has. They just put the wrong element into that.
I’m very sorry that happened to your brother. He never had a good chance at life.