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To: C19fan

As a GenXer and child of the Seventies, I can’t help but roll my eyes whenever I hear people going on about how their precious fee-fees were hurt by being ‘fat-shamed’ or ‘slut-shamed’ or any other kind of ‘shamed’.

Not when I still have vivid memories of growing up in a school, where there were only two types of boys. You were either a jock (who were the alpha and beta males of the school wolf pack), or you were automatically (and irrevocably) branded as a “faggot”. Didn’t matter what your actual orientation was (assuming you even *KNEW* at that age to begin with). If you ranked lower than beta, you were a “faggot”, and you would be treated accordingly.
You either learned how to physically defend yourself early on, or you paid the price. “Shaming” was the LEAST part of that price.


4 posted on 07/20/2019 4:14:17 AM PDT by Kriggerel ("All great truths are hard and bitter, but lies... are sweeter than wild honey" (Ragnar Redbeard))
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To: Kriggerel

Yes, you are correct. That is the way I grew up.

This was in a public school system.


7 posted on 07/20/2019 4:44:20 AM PDT by sauropod (A man never stands so tall as when he stoops to kiss butt - Victor Davis Hanson)
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To: Kriggerel

Bullying still goes on.
Wear glasses?
Wear braces?
Fat?
Skinny?
Wromg brand clothing?
Homemade clothing?

But certain self-identities (even those deliberately designed to be attention seeking) are “protected”.

#BanBullying certainly hasn’t been equally applied


11 posted on 07/20/2019 5:07:22 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Denounce DUAC - The Democrats Un-American Activists Committee)
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To: Kriggerel

In my HS it was the jocks and the stoners.

There were the alphas and betas in each group. Then there were the dorks who were the no-names and were essentially invisible


13 posted on 07/20/2019 5:19:40 AM PDT by Ouderkirk (Life is about ass, you're either covering, hauling, laughing, kicking, kissing, or behaving like one)
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To: Kriggerel
branded as a “faggot”. Didn’t matter what your actual orientation was (assuming you even *KNEW* at that age to begin with).
In one of George Carlin's old routines, when he talks about growing up Irish Catholic in NOO YAWK he mentioned that. A fag didn't necessarily mean homosexual, he was generally the guy too chicken to join the rest of the gang to create mischief. "AHH, he's a big fag, go on home ya big fag!"
61 posted on 07/20/2019 10:42:03 AM PDT by Impala64ssa (Virtue signalling is no virtue)
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