As a GenXer and child of the Seventies, I can’t help but roll my eyes whenever I hear people going on about how their precious fee-fees were hurt by being ‘fat-shamed’ or ‘slut-shamed’ or any other kind of ‘shamed’.
Not when I still have vivid memories of growing up in a school, where there were only two types of boys. You were either a jock (who were the alpha and beta males of the school wolf pack), or you were automatically (and irrevocably) branded as a “faggot”. Didn’t matter what your actual orientation was (assuming you even *KNEW* at that age to begin with). If you ranked lower than beta, you were a “faggot”, and you would be treated accordingly.
You either learned how to physically defend yourself early on, or you paid the price. “Shaming” was the LEAST part of that price.
Yes, you are correct. That is the way I grew up.
This was in a public school system.
Bullying still goes on.
Wear glasses?
Wear braces?
Fat?
Skinny?
Wromg brand clothing?
Homemade clothing?
But certain self-identities (even those deliberately designed to be attention seeking) are “protected”.
#BanBullying certainly hasn’t been equally applied
In my HS it was the jocks and the stoners.
There were the alphas and betas in each group. Then there were the dorks who were the no-names and were essentially invisible