We are a diversity of people with diverse interests and desires and yearnings about with whom we will and will not associate. The point of our Republic is to leave us free to our own interests with interferrence from the state only when our actions either invade someone else's private property rights or invade his rights in the public sphere.
I personally don't give a fig if I am "united" with some random set of citizens selected from Sacramento CA or Bismark NK and to have this discussion is to fall into the trap of progressives who would moderate or modulate our freedom of association including the freedom not to associate at all.
Here is an example of Trudeau and his base supporting actual ISIS terrorist. Trudeau is given a standing ovation by the Parliament for supporting ISIS. Not the "moderate Muslims" but actual terrorist that burn people alive. The only thing we can do is call them out.
Nice thought but talking to those who are berserk just doesn’t work. Save your breath.