[C19fan]

Money quote: But what my friend saw in this current moment were mixed messages: It’s good to be aggressive if your date is interested, but read the room wrong and you are done. It feels great to be chased when you are attracted to the person doing the chasing. Otherwise, the chaser might be seen as a predator.

Betas and below are predators.

[redgolum]

I am a man, and have been chased by women in the workplace.

I have also been told I was insulting them by not flirting with them.

Happily married for 13 plus years, and old Red is a bit grey in the muzzle now so that isn’t as big of an issue anymore.