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STABLE MARRAIGES: HOW TO ENCOURAGE HAVING THAT 3rd KID

Posted on 09/16/2017 8:40:47 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET

Our replacement level population growth is immigrants, mostly moozlems and Mexicans-not good. Our only hope is larger AMERICAN families. More stay at home moms, more religion. Whole lotta ideas to be examined. 1) Big tax credit for those married for 10 years. 2) Education vouchers for more home schooling. 3) Immigration confined to Europeans/Asians with 3 SMART kids. 4) Roth IRA'S for 14 YEAR OLDS working weekends at Burger King.

Cut spending drastically. FREE Catholic school online(read it somewhere). Empty our nations jails thru internal exile/deportation. Have them report to local cops and churches-plenty of work out there for them. Confine higher education spending to math and science courses. They can pay out of pocket for ethnic studies. 3 year degree programs would REALLY piss them(tell me who) off.

Talk to me.


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1 posted on 09/16/2017 8:40:47 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET
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To: DIRTYSECRET

How to encourage having that 3rd kid? Good question.

My wife and I stopped at two. Mother nature took care of things for us. We were open to having more, if you get my meaning, but it never happened for us.

Among other things, you would have to encourage people to want to have children, not use birth control, and ideally, if the goal is producing children, encourage early marriage. So many young people in peak fertility years in their 20s, are simply not married and having families at those ages. And that is due to a host of other issues going on in our culture. People are in college or grad school at those ages. People are making sure to use birth control as a woman that age is developing her career.

See what others may add to this discussion. An entire culture has grown around the idea that marriage and family and children are something to put off, to think about later, as young people grow to adulthood.


2 posted on 09/16/2017 8:45:46 AM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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To: DIRTYSECRET

There’s more: How about a $2k gift at birth? $1k Health Savings Account and $1k Roth IRA put in the S&P500? Absolutely no access to the Roth until age 59. Make them watch it grow. Parents can monitor both and teach investment with minimum involvement. A REAL Great Society.


3 posted on 09/16/2017 8:48:53 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET (urope. Why do they put up with this.)
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To: DIRTYSECRET

Got three, but we’re still going at it, so we might end up with more. Getting old, though.


4 posted on 09/16/2017 8:54:17 AM PDT by struggle (The)
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To: struggle

I hope the “still going at it” part isn’t getting old.

:)


5 posted on 09/16/2017 8:57:19 AM PDT by 2111USMC (Aim Small Miss Small)
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To: DIRTYSECRET

We have three. Let me tell you that zone defense is a different game than man to man coverage.


6 posted on 09/16/2017 8:58:43 AM PDT by outofsalt ( If history teaches us anything it's that history rarely teaches us anything)
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To: DIRTYSECRET

As people get older they realize the true value/meaning of family. You are nothing without one. That means go out and work your ass off to support yours. Women know this more than men. One had no problem letting her husband stray as long as they had that extra child. Children’s birthday parties were most fun for the single women present. So men do your duty. If you are married to a ‘career woman’ It’s your job to put a stop to that shit.


7 posted on 09/16/2017 9:00:30 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET (urope. Why do they put up with this.)
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To: Dilbert San Diego

High taxes at every level + declining value of $ + increasing costs = reduction in family size as both couples work.

Without cheaply made Chinese stuff as placeholders for a middle class experience, it would even be worse.

Add on huge educational debt and fewer jobs, and you have an explanation of the state of things.

In many poor countries, they have lots of kids, treasure them and don’t chase paychecks.


8 posted on 09/16/2017 9:06:44 AM PDT by aMorePerfectUnion
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To: 2111USMC

Frankly, I’m surprised it hasn’t at all.


9 posted on 09/16/2017 9:07:39 AM PDT by struggle (The)
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To: Dilbert San Diego

College is wasted money on half of those who attend. Better to encourage the skills and trades. Pay is good, life is good.

Setting up home starts earlier.

Your point is excellent inserted here. Young couples have babies and middle class lives have the cash to raise them.


10 posted on 09/16/2017 9:08:28 AM PDT by xzins (Retired US Army chaplain. Support our troops by praying for their victory.)
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To: DIRTYSECRET
Social engineering with the tax code is always problematic. It's a giant Rube Goldberg machine as it is. Right now the state competes with children for money. Kids are expensive and money is finite (at least in the short term). The bigger the cut government takes, the less people have available for food, education and braces for Jr..

On the flip side, lots of that tax money goes for social spending for immigrants. So families compete with the state directly, and immigrants indirectly.

If we want larger families we need to let them keep their money. So cut taxes.

If we want fewer immigrants, stop social spending. Get rid of Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security, HUD, ED, and all the government alphabet soup. That's what attracts them.

11 posted on 09/16/2017 9:09:33 AM PDT by Poison Pill
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To: aMorePerfectUnion

Forgot to mention: Encouraging families to have that 3rd kid will encourage 1 child families to have that 2nd one.


12 posted on 09/16/2017 9:10:00 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET (urope. Why do they put up with this.)
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To: DIRTYSECRET
Ever wonder why the Progressive Left, along with their leader, HRC, insist upon the mechanism of "abortion rights" as a non-negotiable foundation of their ideological control of the Democrat Party?

"Hillary Clinton responded to a question about the controversy over pro-life Democratic candidates in a new interview by insisting that abortion is a 'fundamental human right.'

That such a declaration comes from the mouth of a person who sought the Presidency of the United States of America is surreal and unbelievable, given that it deeply offends such a large portion of the citizenry.

Just who does this person believe she is? We know that she is committed to that movement which self-identifies as "Progressive," further, we know that movement's economic ideas are Socialist by nature.

Perhaps the following excerpt may explain why the Democrat Party and Hillary Clinton insist on "population control." Please note especially the first paragraph highlighted and quoted below from the Liberty Fund Library "A Plea for Liberty: An Argument Against Socialism and Socialistic Legislation," edited by Thomas Mackay (1849 - 1912), Chapter 1, final paragraphs from Edward Stanley Robertson's essay, "The Impracticability of Socialism":

Note the writer's emphasis that the "scheme of Socialism" requires what he calls "the power of restraining the increase in population"--long the essential and primary focus of the Democrat Party in the U. S.:

"I have suggested that the scheme of Socialism is wholly incomplete unless it includes a power of restraining the increase of population, which power is so unwelcome to Englishmen that the very mention of it seems to require an apology. I have showed that in France, where restraints on multiplication have been adopted into the popular code of morals, there is discontent on the one hand at the slow rate of increase, while on the other, there is still a 'proletariat,' and Socialism is still a power in politics.
I.44
"I have put the question, how Socialism would treat the residuum of the working class and of all classes—the class, not specially vicious, nor even necessarily idle, but below the average in power of will and in steadiness of purpose. I have intimated that such persons, if they belong to the upper or middle classes, are kept straight by the fear of falling out of class, and in the working class by positive fear of want. But since Socialism purposes to eliminate the fear of want, and since under Socialism the hierarchy of classes will either not exist at all or be wholly transformed, there remains for such persons no motive at all except physical coercion. Are we to imprison or flog all the 'ne'er-do-wells'?
I.45
"I began this paper by pointing out that there are inequalities and anomalies in the material world, some of which, like the obliquity of the ecliptic and the consequent inequality of the day's length, cannot be redressed at all. Others, like the caprices of sunshine and rainfall in different climates, can be mitigated, but must on the whole be endured. I am very far from asserting that the inequalities and anomalies of human society are strictly parallel with those of material nature. I fully admit that we are under an obligation to control nature so far as we can. But I think I have shown that the Socialist scheme cannot be relied upon to control nature, because it refuses to obey her. Socialism attempts to vanquish nature by a front attack. Individualism, on the contrary, is the recognition, in social politics, that nature has a beneficent as well as a malignant side. The struggle for life provides for the various wants of the human race, in somewhat the same way as the climatic struggle of the elements provides for vegetable and animal life—imperfectly, that is, and in a manner strongly marked by inequalities and anomalies. By taking advantage of prevalent tendencies, it is possible to mitigate these anomalies and inequalities, but all experience shows that it is impossible to do away with them. All history, moreover, is the record of the triumph of Individualism over something which was virtually Socialism or Collectivism, though not called by that name. In early days, and even at this day under archaic civilisations, the note of social life is the absence of freedom. But under every progressive civilisation, freedom has made decisive strides—broadened down, as the poet says, from precedent to precedent. And it has been rightly and naturally so.
I.46
"Freedom is the most valuable of all human possessions, next after life itself. It is more valuable, in a manner, than even health. No human agency can secure health; but good laws, justly administered, can and do secure freedom. Freedom, indeed, is almost the only thing that law can secure. Law cannot secure equality, nor can it secure prosperity. In the direction of equality, all that law can do is to secure fair play, which is equality of rights but is not equality of conditions. In the direction of prosperity, all that law can do is to keep the road open. That is the Quintessence of Individualism, and it may fairly challenge comparison with that Quintessence of Socialism we have been discussing. Socialism, disguise it how we may, is the negation of Freedom. That it is so, and that it is also a scheme not capable of producing even material comfort in exchange for the abnegations of Freedom, I think the foregoing considerations amply prove."
EDWARD STANLEY ROBERTSON
Most present-day Americans do not understand the explanation of the Progressive ideology, as explained so clearly in Robertson's essay.
13 posted on 09/16/2017 9:12:16 AM PDT by loveliberty2
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To: DIRTYSECRET

We have almost three times that and we are always open to more.


14 posted on 09/16/2017 9:16:58 AM PDT by Trillian
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To: DIRTYSECRET

The problem is we incentivize the poorest and dumbest in our society to have as many children as possible. It’s reason why illegal immigrants from the third world and muslims can squirt out six kids per family so comfortably.


15 posted on 09/16/2017 9:20:13 AM PDT by WilliamCooper1
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To: DIRTYSECRET

I’d be in jail today trying raise a kid. Between the nanny state trying to tell parents what discipline is, feeding 5 year olds lesbian masturbation techniques, feeding 12 year olds R-rated sexual and violent movies, I’d just lose it and kill some idiots that desperately deserve it.


16 posted on 09/16/2017 9:20:57 AM PDT by CodeToad (Victorious warriors WIN first, then go to war! Go TRUMP!!!)
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Here's my idea: if even one bishop/Cardinal of a large US Catholic archdiocese were to announce at the beginning of the New Year: “If the Catholic Church were to marry only perfect people, we'd be performing no weddings. However, we can and should insist that engaged couples at least publicly be committed to being sincere Catholics. You should not be living together before you get married if you want to get married in the Catholic Church. If you are living together, separate immediately. If your attitude is, ‘We just can lie about it’, ask yourselves why you have such an adolescent attitude about the most important commitment you'll make in your life. We're not going to be following people home from their jobs to find out where they ‘realy’ live, but if you admit you are living together, or fill out the same address on forms, we will rescind permission to marry in our archdiocese. Also, to marry in the Catholic church means you are committed to attend church every Sunday, to raise your children Catholic and bring them to church every Sunday, and to send them to Catholic school or enroll them in CCD. If you do not pledge to do all of those things, we will not marry you in our archdiocese. Yes, you can lie about those things. Again, I ask you, why would you make the most important commitment of your life with a lie?”

The above may have an indirect effect on what the non-Muslim population, but it may start a wave of people who stop this years of living together nonsense, which has people deferring marriage indefinitely.

17 posted on 09/16/2017 9:30:25 AM PDT by utahagen (but but)
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To: DIRTYSECRET

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alienation_of_affections

Bring back Alienation of Affections statutes.

Women typically initiate divorces and already have a man picked ready to saddle up.

New man gets to pay damages to the old husband which would help in his having to pay child support for those 3+ kids...


18 posted on 09/16/2017 9:42:41 AM PDT by Snickering Hound
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To: DIRTYSECRET

Not to nitpick but please don’t put all Mexicans as you put it in the same basket. My husband is Hispanic and of Mexican descent. His family has been here well over 100 years. And he is the most conservative person I know. We are not all a lost cause. And we have four kids. :)


19 posted on 09/16/2017 9:43:07 AM PDT by mag1222
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Birth control and easy access to abortion have more to do with ‘living together’ and deferring marriage than almost anything. This allows single women to sleep around as if they where men. Women control the sex act and if they didn't allow men to have sex with them without a commitment, men would be getting married much earlier. Couple that with the insanity of the need for a college education and women needing a career (mainly due to massive confiscatory taxes) and many people delay getting married until after thirty.

Here is a simple fact. Getting pregnant after 30 and especially 35 is very difficult for most women. The female body was intended to have children early and often but mostly early, before thirty and even better before 25.

20 posted on 09/16/2017 9:46:15 AM PDT by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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