I agree with your analysis.
We are to be pajamas boy.
This is why Trump is doing so well. He is not pajamas boy, and any attempt by msm, democrats, and effeminate republicans, to tell him to watch his “tone” is treated with with contempt. And real conservatives, while maybe not fully embracing and trusting Trump, are cheerleading Trump on and encouraging him to stand up like he has been doing, and to not cower and give in like a pajamas boy.
I have observed this often. Hetro couples in their 20’s and 30’s where the guy seems effeminate and swishy while the female seems confident and bold.