I know how those men feel. That was me. never could change it. Tried. I gave up. 18 years down the toilet.
Yeah, even though my wife and I are still going strong, I still felt like I came last and even today feel that way occasionally. I never minded being behind the kids but all the rest coming in ahead of me was not right. When we were having those problems I brought out all of that to my wife and she came to understand exactly what and why I was feeling about being ignored.
It would be great if women had a better understanding of how they treat the men they profess to love.