That is just so heartbreaking........
It is. The only disability I fear in a child to raise is RAD. Reactive attachment disorder. It is extraordinarily important to treasure babies. If they are not adored and cared for with love, they will become cold, mean people who are forever truly unreachable, or other deep neediness that will affect those around them forever.
Let me give you an example of an unattached child whose neediness turned into sociopathy is affecting you right now. His name is Barack Hussein Obama. Mmm mmm mmmm.