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Internet Forums and Social Dynamics: Part I: Everybody is someone else’s weirdo
grey_whiskers ^ | 01-01-2012 | grey_whiskers

Posted on 01/01/2012 5:02:18 PM PST by grey_whiskers

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To: betty boop
But again, if that is your answer, what was the question? (I don't recall having asked about animal souls.) Let's try again.

I thought you were asking me for some sort of clarification of the nature of empathy and how to recognize it. Or something along those lines.

101 posted on 01/05/2012 11:47:46 AM PST by A_perfect_lady (Anyone opposed to Newt should remember: we're not electing a messiah, we're electing a politician.)
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To: betty boop

Interesting thread bump. Thank you for the education, BB. I learned something new today.


102 posted on 01/05/2012 11:48:13 AM PST by Hemingway's Ghost (Spirit of '75)
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To: Alamo-Girl; Mind-numbed Robot; A_perfect_lady; grey_whiskers; Matchett-PI; xzins; YHAOS; MHGinTN
Only God sees all that there is all at once — every where and every when. He alone knows objective Truth, He alone speaks it.... The best that man can sense of reality is very subjective — merely a glimpse, an abstraction.

Amen, and AMEN to that, dearest sister in Christ!

Man is not God; he is the Image of God.... (Assuming he lives up to his "best lights.")

With you, with my whole heart, I affirm:

God's Name is I AM, YHwH (He IS), Alpha and Omega, the Creator, El Shaddai (God Almighty)!

Thank you ever so much for writing, dearest sister in Christ, for your kind words of support, and the marvelous links!
103 posted on 01/05/2012 12:06:20 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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To: A_perfect_lady
I thought you were asking me for some sort of clarification of the nature of empathy and how to recognize it.

Okay. We can go with that.

We can start by asking what "empathy" means. Merriam-Webster defines it as

1: the imaginative projection of a subjective state into an object so that the object appears to be infused with it

2: the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner; also : the capacity for this

On this basis, would you say that cats have a capacity for empathy?

It seems both our last replies crossed in the mail. I'll take a breather till such time as we can catch up again.

104 posted on 01/05/2012 12:18:03 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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To: betty boop

Most animals do not seem to demonstrate empathy, no. And a very large number of people don’t either.


105 posted on 01/05/2012 12:28:07 PM PST by A_perfect_lady (Anyone opposed to Newt should remember: we're not electing a messiah, we're electing a politician.)
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To: A_perfect_lady
Most animals do not seem to demonstrate empathy, no. And a very large number of people don’t either.

Yes. I've noticed that too.

106 posted on 01/05/2012 12:36:16 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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107 posted on 01/05/2012 12:51:53 PM PST by TheOldLady (FReepmail me to get ON or OFF the ZOT LIGHTNING ping list)
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To: betty boop; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
A_perfect_lady: "Most animals do not seem to demonstrate empathy, no. And a very large number of people don’t either."

bettyboop: "Yes. I've noticed that too."

"...If human beings were basically good, it wouldn't be necessary to have an injunction against murder. In fact, it is the last thing we would need. People would, as a matter of course, realize how infinitely precious their own life is, and then, through a natural process of empathy, understand that everyone else's life is equally precious, and that would be that. Murder would be inconceivable because it would represent the ultimate injustice: the theft of something of infinite value which can never be replaced. .....

"Ironically, leftist nihilists rarely cite the Ten Commandments, but you will often hear them cite "thou shalt not kill" in support of their nihilist policies. Interesting that they misinterpret the one commandment of which they approve.

"And the reason they misinterpret this particular commandment is that it dovetails nicely with their deeply nihilistic and pacifist tendencies. For when you conflate murder and killing, you do two things: first, you minimize and even trivialize the horror of murder -- very similar to feminists who trivialize the horror of rape by equating it with any sex a woman regrets on the following day. But secondly, you convert the use of lethal violence against evil, which is a moral necessity, into something bad. Once again, you have overturned the moral order of the world. ......

"Most soul murders are undoubtedly committed by those who are already so spiritually damaged as to be functionally dead. ...... created when the soul has been so damaged that it essentially exits the body, leaving only a grotesque human-animal in its place. ......

"[They] also cannot help converting their children to their way of non-being. In ways both subtle and profound, they will interact with ...children in a pathological manner, causing the children to internalize the same virus that afflicts [them]. Regardless, the virus always goes by the name of “love,” which simply further confuses the child. In the end, they will not be able to distinguish the difference between love and hate or truth and lies, any more than they can distinguish between life and death. [...........]"

Thou Shalt not Kill, but [Soul] Murder is Fine

~ Robert W.Godwin [Gagdad Bob] , Ph.D - a clinical psychologist whose interdisciplinary work has focused on the relationship between contemporary psychoanalysis, chaos theory, and quantum physics.

108 posted on 01/05/2012 1:05:59 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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To: betty boop; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
More to go with #108 above:

"...Liberals, of course, want us to understand the terrorists. But one of the first things I learned in my psychoanalytic training is that real empathy has nothing to do with reinforcing someone's delusions just to make them feel better. Rather, it must involve things like confrontation, interpretation, clarification, etc. ..."

HERE

109 posted on 01/05/2012 1:11:33 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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To: Hemingway's Ghost

Thank you kindly, Hemingway’s Ghost! This subject matter is very near and dear to my heart.... I’m grateful you find it interesting, too!


110 posted on 01/05/2012 1:12:26 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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To: betty boop; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
More to go with #108 above (I'm on a roll. LOL):

"...Long story short, I believe it is fair to say that, since Jesus is "true man," then all of the above observations must apply to him as well -- indeed, must apply to him quintessentially.

For he surely respects the distinctions within the Trinity, even while knowing that they cannot ultimately be separate; he has an unusually high degree of self-awareness, and with it, other-understanding, or empathy; has a total allegiance to Truth; and does not conflate celestial and terrestrial dimensions, despite the ubiquitous temptation to vote Democrat.

Wanted: One Messiah. No Experience Necessary

111 posted on 01/05/2012 1:24:06 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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To: Matchett-PI; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
Regardless, the virus always goes by the name of “love,” which simply further confuses the child.

On this point, may I simply observe that the "liberal progressives" that I know, either directly or as represented through the MSM, are all united in and to "LOVE" — in the perfectly abstract.

What I mean is, they "love" abstract humanity. But they cannot stand members of their own family, or particular members of their own community....

No! It is our love for humanity in the abstract that innoculates us from any charge that we have been unloving to particular persons.

Like our actual, direct neighbors, for instance.

In short, they can only love in the abstract, but not in the particular case.

To me, this is the sickness of our age....

No wonder the child is confused....

112 posted on 01/05/2012 1:24:56 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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To: betty boop; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
OK... I'll quit after this. :)

More to go with #108 above:

"[...........] But I want to return to the topic of religion as the container ( ) of an explosive force, or content ( ). Call it the "spiritual drive," or the "pneumaphilic instinct," but whatever it is, just like any other human capacity, it requires a container to guide and channel it -- just as, say, music requires a system of musical notation to structure and give it depth.

Bach, for example, was born with a "musical drive," but what if he had been born at a time prior to the western system of musical notation, which allows one to think with such complexity within the chordal space of vertical musicality? The point is again that an adequate container is critical for one to achieve one's potential in any given area.

It is no different with religion. The other day, I was reading of how Dawson felt that different historical eras were literally different worlds which we could not really understand by projecting our own world onto them.

This makes total sense to me, because true empathy of a patient involves not just understanding their content, but their container.

Furthermore, real change generally doesn't involve the patient obtaining this or that piece of missing information. Rather, it involves a slow alteration and repair of their container within the context of the therapeutic alliance. Truly, therapy is just something you do to distract the patient while his mind is healing itself, mainly as a result of an intimate relationship with another.

So anyway, my point is that modernity -- e.g., the scientific revolution and the birth of the individual self -- essentially exploded the religious container that had contained the mind and spirit up to that point, and there is no going back to that innocent world. You cannot put the bats back into the belfry or the truthpaste into the tube. Different world.

They say that modern physics displaced earth from the center of the universe, just as natural selection displaced man from the center of the biosphere, thus rendering the religion of Christianity hopelessly quaint, what with its cognitively reassuring firmament above and a God who just happens to be in the form of a man.

Whatever. The point is not to argue over facts, which is to say, the content, but to understand the cosmic, and even metacosmic, nature of Christianity, so that it may serve as a container for the historical middle world we happen to inhobbit. I suppose that's the point of both my book and this blog, which is why I never argue with the other guy's content when his container is so messed up. One Cosmos "Under" God is really another way of saying One Mother of a Cosmos Contained by Father God. And they say God himself was marrily contained for awhile, but that's amother story.

The Logotomized Always Lie

113 posted on 01/05/2012 1:42:16 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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To: betty boop
"....In short, they can only love in the abstract, but not in the particular case. To me, this is the sickness of our age.... No wonder the child is confused...."

".....But the emergence of humanness is characterized by the trimorphic, intersubjective structure of Mother-Father-Baby. This can only take place because the male now has a social (not biological) role: father, husband, protector, etc. Thus, you might say that these categories are the very "essence" of civilization.

Even on a purely practical basis, a civilization that fails to produce manly men to protect it is not long for the world. But more subtly, in psychoanalytic terms, "father" is also a symbol of the Law (in its most generic and universal sense, in that reverence for the abstract Law is one of the things that lifts us above the animals).

In contrast, the mother is mercy, which is felt, not thought. Nor could it ever be reduced to granite tablets, like the Ten Commandments. Law is always masculine.

It reminds me of when Senator Feinstein was questioning Justice Roberts at the confirmation hearings. She said something to the effect that she wanted to know how he felt, not what he thought. Or more recently, think of the supremely feminized Obama saying that he wanted justices with "empathy." I think you can see why that leads directly to the unraveling of civilization at its very foundation, for it is a passive aggressive attack on masculinity. Judicial tyranny is the result. ...."

HERE

114 posted on 01/05/2012 1:55:57 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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To: Matchett-PI; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
... which is why I never argue with the other guy's content when his container is so messed up.

Great stuff, dear Matchett-PI!!!

A word to the wise. From the ever amazing Gagdad Bob....

Thank you ever so much for this most recent series of your outstanding essay/posts!

115 posted on 01/05/2012 1:56:26 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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To: betty boop

Yer welcome! :)


116 posted on 01/05/2012 2:01:19 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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To: Alamo-Girl

I do so enjoy the way you phrase things ...


117 posted on 01/05/2012 2:07:23 PM PST by MHGinTN (Some, believing they cannot be deceived, it's impossible to convince them when they're deceived.)
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To: Matchett-PI; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
...think of the supremely feminized Obama saying that he wanted justices with "empathy." I think you can see why that leads directly to the unraveling of civilization at its very foundation, for it is a passive aggressive attack on masculinity.

Oh, but dontcha know, "we" are "stipulated" as living in an "Eve-flavored age" — according to the self-selected intelligentsia, whose exponent, the novelist John Knowles, put it just exactly that way:

I think it's apparent all through cultural history that when women did in the past get a slightly higher position in society, these are usually the periods of great innovation [this is news to me so far]. With all our faults, this is an extraordinary age for tearing old ideas apart and remodeling the world. [Whatta surprise.] These, to me, are very strongly — how shall I put it? — Eve-flavored periods. They're periods when you suddenly feel the underlying, almost unconscious entrance of women everywhere in society. At the root of it, it seems to me, it's women quarreling with the way men see the world, with the paternalistic, rigid, structured society, machismo society. I think women are paradoxically the more conservative sex and also the more revolutionary sex. [from the Wall Street Journal editorial page, dated Nov. 20, 1981.]

Two observations: (1) What a crock; logically/epistemologically speaking, Knowles' case is "all hat and no cattle." And (2) no wonder Islamofascist males are so afraid of "females"....

Idiocy, times two, thank you very much.

118 posted on 01/05/2012 2:19:09 PM PST by betty boop (We are led to believe a lie when we see with, and not through, the eye. — William Blake)
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To: A_perfect_lady; betty boop; Matchett-PI; Mind-numbed Robot; Alamo-Girl; xzins; YHAOS; MHGinTN; ...
Compare and contrast this with your post #87, in which you seem to imply that the similarity of other species (say, cats) to humans in regards to "empathy" is indicative that either "animals have souls" or "souls are a human idea, made up etc."

And now you claim that "religions" is a word used to group ideas which are merely made up in the service of justifying behaviour.

Huh.

To boomerang the classic atheist argument against the existence of God, (if morality exists God adds nothing to it, and can be eliminated by Occam's razor) --

Why then should religion have begun, (or, for that matter, persist) if animals show these behaviours already without resorting to *anything* to justify them? (Whence the need to justify what is by your accounting instinctive? And -- probing deeper -- why would anything need "justifying"? Where did the concept of justifying come from in the first place? Humans are animals, right?

Quit contradicting yourself.

Cheers!

119 posted on 01/05/2012 2:30:44 PM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: betty boop; A_perfect_lady; Alamo-Girl
"Oh, but dontcha know, "we" are "stipulated" as living in an "Eve-flavored age" — according to the self-selected intelligentsia...."

But, every once in a blue moon (in a society full of "the castrati", as Rush calls them), along comes an "Iron Lady" like Thatcher and a "John Wayne" like Palin.

I think you'll love Gagdad's take on Palin. I think it's absolutely DELICIOUS!:)bttt:

Thursday, September 04, 2008
John Wayne with Lipstick: The Axe Wielding Natural

"...she's more macho than Biden and more feminine than Obama....If you don't think castration anxiety is real, just watch the reaction of the media elites as they instinctively cross their legs." It happens only every time Palin opens her mouth.

120 posted on 01/05/2012 2:49:12 PM PST by Matchett-PI ("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)
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