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Believe me, I am really hacked off right now about these parasites. My soon-to-be-ex-husband's girlfriend is living in HUD housing on disability and apparently she has been the one trying to convince him to go on disability for the last few years after he had bypass surgery. He kept bringing that idea up with me and I told him no, that he could even get a job in the Electrical Department at Home Depot if he felt he couldn't handle the physical labor on a jobsite (he can, but won't).

I just found out he is defrauding the unemployment office too, he had a job for two weeks and is not going to tell them about it. He was cut off at the beginning of June after being unemployed since last October. He "miraculously" found a job that same week and then when more benefits became available Aug 1st, he left that job and applied for benefits again. He thinks the Judge in divorce court is going to feel sorry for him because he is on unemployment and he won't have to pay anything.

Meanwhile, I am stuck with all of his bills and am trying to finance the mortgage in my own name. I just had my hip replaced in June, when he left me and moved in with her the day after I got home. However, I had disability insurance through my job, which I have held for 24 years. He says that I should not drag her butt into court on adultery charges because "she is disabled and living in HUD housing"...freaking boo-hoo, too bad.

I don't qualify for any assistance nor would I take any, I am even going to have to dip into my 401(k) for the down payment on the house. Arrrrrrggggghhhh! I despise these parasites!

Disclaimer: Not all Section 8/HUD users are parasites, but there sure are more of them than the honest folks!