Yep! Husband’s cousin was married with a daughter, but I said “She’s a lesbian.” I was laughed at because... well, she was married with a daughter! Couple of years later she left her husband for a woman. My gaydar is hardly ever wrong and I’m still convinced it’s a matter of not being wrong. Just a matter of time.
Try figuring that out after however many years of marriage and 8 children. No, I don’t think any one saw that one coming in the earlier years.
If you have a gaydar - you are gay.
Heck, if you freely use that word - you are gay.
This thread is really ridiculous.