Posted on 06/19/2008 1:28:56 PM PDT by big black dog
I am a mother of two children, ages son 5 and daughter 2. I am also ( common law ) married with the father of my daughter. will be four years in July of this year.
My husband and I have been goin through finacial hard times the past seven months and for there causes stress. In december 2007 my husband went to jail for family assult on me which the police statement was not filled out with the whole truth.
I asked my husband not to be taken to jail then but they took him anyway. Now weeks pasted and he went to jail again for terriostic threat on me back in I want to say in May the first part. I did not fill out a ststement then but they took him any way. now i have signed two afidavids dropping all charges on my husband
Now on May 21 a call was placed to CPS reporting us and they came out that Friday couple days later. Now this is the kicker we live in San Jacinto Co. and the CPS investorgater that came out was from montgomery co.
The CPS workers also came out with two undercover gentlemen that were police to aide in the protection of the CPS workers because they said that my husband was violant.
The CPS workers interveiwed both my kids and my husband and I as well. After looking around in the house, taking photos of everything that they could nit pick at. the one worker called her supervisor and decided to remove my kids from the home due to they said it was not safe.
Now my husband and I were in the process of moving to another location and 90 percent of our belongings were already moved out. We had no electricity because we had it cut off BUT we did have a generator powering a 110 ac window unit which kept it very cool.
we had food, running water, and every thing we needed to take care of the kids. Now mind you we were going to be out of the house that weekend due to us moving. thats why we had it like that.
The CPS worker told us that they were removing the kids on a volunteer placement and we had to find a family member that would pass an full background check. no priors, jail, pretty much nothing on their record.
the only ones that passed were my parents. so thats were they are at this time. ok CPS said we had to pass a drug test whic we did, we were able to see the kids but could not sleep over the night with them. But we could but with them all day supervised by my parents.
about a week later CPS the one that came to our house called my husband and had got a attitude with him. he had caught her in some lies there on the phone. my husband was upset and all he said to her was ' Im getting my kids back' now with the priors my husband had on his record she took this the wrong way.
she took it as a threat and called her supervisor in austin he then spook to my husband and decided to have the state take full custody of my kids. It has been a month since we have seen our kids we cant even talk to them on the phone.
the CPS worker told us we would have to pass 2 drug test now before we could see the kids. one we already passed. There was a court hearing on monday june 9th for the kids. the judge decided to keep the kids with my parents. the judge also ordered a folical hair test which i was told could take 3 weeks to wait for the order that being the second. thats messed up
i have asked the workers if in the meantime we take another urine drug test so we can see our kids they said NO... we have another court date on july 29th to see my husbands and my progress in the classes we need to take.
our kids are our life and come before anyone i dont understand how they could do this when the person that called in on us is just an mad x friend trying to get revenge. there were so many lies they told me , husband, and to my parents.
CPS will not return any calls i leave messages every day. and when the state took over it got switched to another county as well. some of the lies have been if i stay with my husband we would not get the kids back, and some told us if we did this togeather it would be better.
i need help somewhere due to this we have lost everything and I WANT justice and my kids back where they belong with their parents. CPS needs to be brought out in the open and by someone that isnt scard.
Post help below or lawyers can contact this website and they will forward us your contact info.
sigh. what a mess.
Am I wrong, or would they be less of a target if they were actully married, rather than just “her boyfriend of four years”?
1985
bttt
That is this gals side of the story.
An unstable pair with two children.
The gal makes excuses for the guy’s attack.
No stability for the kids.
The emotional damage that is already done to the kids and will continue.
If two people want to play house, don’t drag kids into the side show. If you can’t support the kids or give them stability with just the basics, don’t have kids or expect CPS to do their job.
Man in jail for domestic violence, more than once.
She is surprised the kids were removed?
Without hearing both sides of the story, it’s impossible to say what truly happened, so I will stick with my own standard response when considering the actions of CPS: I assume that CPS is up to No Damned Good (TM) and is generally lying any time they’re talking, until they prove otherwise.
CPS may be the spawn of Satan but this woman is nuts!!!
There is alot that can be said about this.
The main point besides all the others about this women’s choices in life:
NEVER LET CPS IN YOUR HOUSE.
That was her most crucial mistake. * If * the guy is not really that dangerous in the first place.
Exactly.
Ahhhh, there seems to be a problem here.
She should invoke the OJ standard, which in his case was kill the other parent and then get full custody.
Since the AP is not welcome here are we reduced to commenting on the “rip off report”? May God Help Us All.
I’ve been in lots of situations where I knew people who were victimized by CPS, myself included.
It was many years ago for me, but I remember thinking these people weren’t really concerned about my kids at all, they were really all about satisfying their bureaucracy.
Thank God we had the means to fight them, but I can tell you there are many good, poor people who have been tortured by these people.
It’s not about protecting the kids. It’s about control and money. The services get money from the feds for every file they open. The longer it is open, the more money they get. It’s sort of like cops with tickets, some are justified, and some you know they are filling their quota. And they really don’t care if they have wrecked your driving record.
Her daughter is 2 and will be 4 in July. Her “common law” is the father of the daughter, not the son. No electricity in the house. Her parents were the “only ones” who could pass a criminal background check. I suspect the kids were filthy, unfed, and no record of doctor visits. The woman writing this is obviously as stupid as a sack of rocks.
“Common law” in jail for family violence and terroristic threats. She won’t prosecute. Someone called CPS and reported something, but it was just vengeful lies from a former “friend”. When her common law decides to throw her through the window or choke her with an extension cord, I hope the kids are not home.
Yeah, keep tabs on CPS and all other powerful govt reps — they are not always your friend, but understand this as well — there are a lot of people just too damn sorry to raise kids.
Nuts and completely uneducated.
Just another typical family in Manawa Wisconsin.
“now i have signed two afidavids dropping all charges on my husband”
hmmmm she said the cops were called because of domestic violence.... now she has committed perjury in order to get him out of jail? Somehow the “system” is not the problem.
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