But was he leering?
My standard is pretty strict. Many years ago, like 1960, I was at that dump of a beach, Colonial Beach Virginia. I saw , for the first time, a teen girl wearing a bikini. After a minute or two my father simply said.’You looked at the girl, she is pretty. Now look at something else, the river, the sand. That is what a gentleman does and it doesn’t matter what the girl does.’