Before you mail order either a submissive woman from rural China or a burqua clad Muslim babe who thinks you are her master-have you checked out any women who have confidence, are not “girly”, can take care of themselves and make a living-and think more like a man when it comes to honor, mutual respect, sex, and sharing resources? I had 2 husbands who liked me that way, and I have a guy who does now-we aren’t all selfish devious bitches-there are just way more who are than who are not...
Two husbands and going on a third? Doesn’t sound like anyone should take advice from you. No offense. You can live your life like you want, but ...