So basically this article is a woman telling other women that it is totally okay to cheat, and that while it will be difficult and painful for you (the cheating woman), it will ultimately benefit you and help you mature.
And it will lead to you either being in a miserable marriage with a whipped male or alone, rode hard and put up wet too many times, bitter and angry that real men wouldn’t put up with your whoring around.
That's the gist of what I got from her as well. It's like she was saying, "This was just a difficult experience I had to go through to mature and learn about myself." No real responsibility or ownership of the DECISION to destroy the most binding commitment you can make with another person. No empathy or any attempt whatsoever to view it from her fiance's side.
Cheating is a devastatingly selfish choice that is probably the most intimately personal, emotionally damaging betrayal of another human being that there is. ...and she did it OVER and OVER.
WAAAAAAY beyond some growing experience or self-discovery thing, you clueless girl.