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Posted on 03/30/2006 7:42:22 AM PST by CardCarryingMember.VastRightWC
A local Ft. Collins man was charged with sexual assault and "domestic violence harrassment" after his wife complained to police that on numerous occasions in the past year she awoke at night to find him "having sex or oral sex" even though she had told him this seemed like rape to her. The husband also admitted to taking nude photos of her while she slept.
I try to tell him that. :-) Seriously, I have my faults. I am out of work and I'm not killing myself looking for another job, which pi$$es him off greatly.
But on the subject at hand, I'm like a Hot Pocket. Two minutes and I'm hot and ready to go at any time. (Can I say that now? Galveston girl is gone, isn't she?)
Oooh, oooh, can I be your bud? I'm real nice, I promise.
evil grin.
Seriously,
When I was married (and even now)....while I'm a girlie girl,
I have more 'guy' behaviors than female.
Being in a 'cave', not wanting to be changed, not wanting to change him, 'leave' my stuff alone attitude, not giving a rat's patootie about housework.... I've always been the one to do the yard work etc.
And I always went to work to pay the bills-- since I was 16.
OK, ONCE,
Just ONCE before I die,
I want to be a kept woman.
Oh dear,
GG is for sure gonna jump on me for that one.
Texan75010
Less suggestive than others? Then what is this you posted:
I keep checking back in on this thread, and ducking...
Oh, sorry ... that's a "d" ... The internet porn whores have got my head swimming and I'm not seeing clearly.
SNORT!!
I must be reading things differently. I came up with he did nothing illegal or even immoral but he was by no means right. I also picked up that she was equally wrong. (Which I happen to agree with)
You made a stupid comment, and I was merely addressing its immediate logical consequence. To be specific, you stated: Legally, it should not be rape. The courts need to stay out of the bedroom. If she doesn't want to be with the fella she can divorce him.
The logical implication of that statement is that a woman doesn't have a right to say "no" to her husband, and also that, if he decides to have sex with her despite her saying "no," that she has no legal recourse other than divorce. From this, your words force one to conclude that you think there should be no punishment for a husband forcing himself on his wife, even though such behavior would properly be called "rape" if the couple were not married.
I then wondered if, perhaps, you wished to extend that "no punishment" rule to any other crimes, such as beatings.... That is not a strawman, just a question prompted by the logic of what you actually said.
You really should pay more attention to the logic of your own statements, before scolding those of us who actually call you out on it....
If my spouse only wanted to have sex 4 times a year, I would live with it. I would be very unhappy, but I love him. I wouldn't leave him. And you can't browbeat someone into being interested. It doesn't work.
You IPW!
(someone had to do it)
Sounds to me like you are a real mans kind of woman. Seriously....Sarah has little over you and that woman was something.
It sounds like you've been hammered on which dropped your confidence. Impressive you continue to stand.
SNORT! I'm gonna fall out of this chair I'm laughing so hard.
that was "Laughing" hard, SittinYonder. Don't get any more brainy ideas.
Phhhlllllffffffffftttttttt~~~~~~
Your two cents would have been interesting.
You have to wait another 2 minutes, or you'll burn your mouth.
SD
Again,
You're too kind.
Oh Lord! Another IPW outs herself!
My wife is sorta like that ... when I ask her what's for dinner she says, "How would you like a Hot Pocket?"
Nah, just blow on it.
I'm so bad.... :-)
Wow. That's some strawman you got there. Jump to conclusions much?
You made a stupid comment, and I was merely addressing its immediate logical consequence. To be specific, you stated: Legally, it should not be rape. The courts need to stay out of the bedroom. If she doesn't want to be with the fella she can divorce him.
The logical implication of that statement is that a woman doesn't have a right to say "no" to her husband, and also that, if he decides to have sex with her despite her saying "no," that she has no legal recourse other than divorce. From this, your words force one to conclude that you think there should be no punishment for a husband forcing himself on his wife, even though such behavior would properly be called "rape" if the couple were not married.
I then wondered if, perhaps, you wished to extend that "no punishment" rule to any other crimes, such as beatings.... That is not a strawman, just a question prompted by the logic of what you actually said.
You really should pay more attention to the logic of your own statements, before scolding those of us who actually call you out on it....
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That is a fallacy of logic
By your logic, if she spends his money he said no to...he could have her arrested.
By your logic, if she were to take his car without his permission, he could have her arrested.
By your logic, if she signed his name to something, he could have her arrested.
Well, all of these things would be true if they were not married. This difference is "THEY ARE MARRIED"
In their marriage "CONTRACT", by default, she agreed to have sex with him... She just lost her control and this was her way of asserting it.
Fools
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