Posted on 11/16/2002 9:50:39 AM PST by Hillary's Lovely Legs
Work vs. Home Work
By Faith Bader Vogel I worked in the corporate world for 15 years. I am now home with a two-year-old daughter, shaping her future, and running our home. And I do mean running our home, from top to bottom.
Raising a child is serious business and demands everything a serious job does. And more, in my opinion. Running a home is the same as running a business. It requires the same general skills. I'm a CEO, and that's a fact.
When I re-enter the outside job market, I will have added onto my resume my current job, and no, I'm not kidding. I have full confidence and look forward to discussing it at an interview.
The tone of what I just read in Women Need to Work puts a ridiculous glorification of "work away from home" as if everyone has a wonderful job and is doing something great or important. The fact is, most people have mundane careers and very few have careers that are important or remarkable. Most are viewed as dispensable by their employers.
Many people who would say they have "this or that" career are people who aren't particularly talented or hard working. You've given in to the politically correct: a woman is only worthwhile or happy if she has a "career". As if you have to go to a building to have a career!
Which is not to say all mothers/homemakers are remarkable or doing important things either. Most are not doing a remarkable job. I will say dare to say, though, that raising a child is more important than almost any job or career.
My two-year-old daughter is far more intelligent, polite, creative, interesting, verbal, and happy than most children her age. This is because her mother is putting 100% into her development in all respects. I challenge anyone who thinks my work is unfulfilling or unchallenging to me.
My home is a very well-run business. It's amazing that we do so well on one paycheck, but it's because I've made it my business. Period. I derive tremendous satisfaction from these challenges.
To declare women who work outside the home better off is ridiculous. How many careers are really interesting?
Most people have to convince themselves that they are on to something special or important when in fact they're just ordinary people with ordinary jobs who need to make a buck. Only they call them careers because that's what is expected these days. They are inflating their own situation to convince themselves that they are doing something important.
Work is work. Challenge is challenge. Ambition is ambition. No matter where you find it.
Isn't that the point of the women's movement if you take it up to date?
Interrupting career to raise children and manage (hopefully improve, too) households is as strong a career as any.
In my opinion, the mother/household track is infinitely more mature - it serves the needs of self, family, and society whereas the non-stop career track serves the self only.
Faith Bader Vogel lives in Fairfield County, Connecticut. She is a member of the international organization called F.E.M.A.L.E. This organization for stay-at-home mothers features newsletters from the Home, regional chapter offices, many interesting organized events for"moms only" in the evenings, and events for moms with children during the day. The group is highly supportive of full-time motherhood, although respectful of other points of view.
It was a quote by Amy Brenneman, the actress in 'Judging Amy'. She said that she was on the set and missing her 5 year old daughter. That she was thinking "What am I doing. Why am I not home with my precious daughter. Is this even worth it?"
Then Tyne Daly told her that the best thing that she can do for her daughter is to work. It shows the daughter that moms can work and girls can be anything.
Amy felt much better after the pep talk and decided to go on with the show.
Oh, and get this. Last night on CNN Headlines news, Carter was reported to say the following "Norwegians give $17 in foreign aid for every dollar an American gives." Well duh, Jimmy. There are a lot more Americans than Norwegians. Why don't you look at the overall dollar amount that America gives vs Norway in Foreign Aid. Give me a break. Jimmy Carter is brain dead. Has been since 1976. The Noble commmittee is a group of socialists/communists. Carter still hasn't figured that the political statement that accompanied his "prize" was a way of slamming Bush, not elevating Carter. Someone please get this peanut a clue. Or better yet, a ticket out of town.
119 posted on 11/16/2002 11:12 AM EST by Endeavor
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And in case you think I'm just making this stuff up, this from Carter's interview w/Larry King last night (and you thought the Gorons were too awful to watch!):
"I think there is a sense that the United States has become too arrogant, too dominant, too self-centered, proud of our wealth, believing that we deserve to be the richest and most powerful and influential nation in the world," Carter said. "I think they feel that we don't really care about them, which is quite often true."
He added, "They all know -- the ones that are educated -- that among the developed, industrialized nations on earth, the United States is at the bottom, way at the bottom, in providing humanitarian aid for peace and for human rights and for housing and for health and education." -- Jimmy Carter on LKL 11/15/2002
120 posted on 11/16/2002 11:23 AM EST by Endeavor
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Maybe after bentmember we've learned our lesson about electing nitwit govenors of dim/lib southern states.
Jimmah - go the freak away with your America-hating b.s.
Good moring everyone. Thanks for the throwing up the gore-fest last evening CC - what a hoot. ;-)
121 posted on 11/16/2002 11:35 AM EST by lodwick
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Good morning, all. First, the silly news:
CLIVE Davis has tapped Denise Rich to help launch the latest all-girl gang of teeny-poppers. The singer/songwriter ex-wife of tax-cheating billionaire Marc Rich will be writing songs for the debut album of Lyric, a triumvirate of hip-hop hotties that is Davis' latest creation for J. Records. Rich told Davis, "I love these girls," after hearing a few of their songs. The self-titled album hits stores in March.
Then, the aggravating:
PRESIDENTIAL adviser Karl Rove and other members of George W. Bush's administration will have to go into heavy spin control when Bob Woodward's muckraking "Bush at War" hits the stores next week. The Washington Post reporter was given unheard-of access to top White House aides for the upcoming Simon & Schuster tome, but loose-lipped insiders may soon regret their candor. Excerpts obtained by the Drudge Report contain some of Woodward's revelations.
The Watergate sleuth accuses Rove of likening the post-Sept. 11 World Series game at Yankee Stadium to a Nazi rally in Hitler's Germany. "The president emerged wearing a . . . Fire Dept. windbreaker," Woodward writes. "He raised his arm and gave a thumbs-up to the crowd on the third base side of the field. Probably 15,000 fans threw their arms in the air imitating the motion.
"He then threw a strike from the rubber, and the stadium erupted. Watching from owner George Steinbrenner's box, Karl Rove thought, it's like being at a Nazi rally."
Rove also thought Secretary of State Colin Powell had too much power. "Rove . . . felt Powell was beyond political control and operating out of a sense of entitlement," Woodward charges. Rove said privately, "It's constantly, you know, 'I'm in charge, and this is all politics and I'm going to win the internecine political game.' "
Woodward also accuses Powell of having a hard time keeping up appearances. "One of Powell's greatest difficulties was that he was more or less supposed to pretend in public that the sharp differences in the war cabinet did not exist. The president would not tolerate public discord. Powell was also held in check by his own code - a soldier obeys." Powell was also "uncomfortable" with some of Bush's Texan ways: "Bush might order, Go get the guns! Get my horses! - all the Texas, Alamo macho that made Powell uncomfortable. But he believed and hoped the president knew better, that he would see the go-it-alone approach did not stand further analysis."
Powell, however, didn't have such high hopes for Donald Rumsfeld and Dick Cheney, Woodward claims. "The ghosts in the machine were Rumsfeld and Cheney in Powell's view. Too often they went for the guns and the horses."
Woodward goes on to depict Cheney as obsessed with Saddam Hussein: "Cheney was beyond hell-bent for action against Saddam. It was as if nothing else existed."
White House deputy press secretary Scott McClellan declined to comment on the book, telling PAGE SIX, "We haven't seen it yet." Page Six
Obviously, the Dems are desperate to dig up - or create - dirt wherever they can. President Bush's popularity is really getting their goat (no, I wasn't referring to Hillary).
122 posted on 11/16/2002 12:47 PM EST by mountaineer
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November 16, 2002 -- ABC's Barbara Walters and CNN's Larry King think a proposed merger between their networks is a good idea - especially if they can work with each other.
"I hope that the merger happens so that you and I can play together," Walters said to King on Thursday's "Larry King Live."
"And it would be kind of nice if maybe you and I do something together once," King said.
"We've talked about this a lot," he said. "But it might work. Maybe we're kicking it off tonight and we don't know it."
"I've always thought that you and I are a very good team," Walters responded. " 'W' comes after 'K.' 'Larry King and Barbara Walters.' "
"No, 'Barbara and Larry,' " King said.
"That would be good," said Walters.
The rest of this gagfest at NY Post
SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Nine Army linguists, including six trained to speak Arabic, have been dismissed from the military because they are gay.
The soldiers' dismissals come at a time when the military is facing a critical shortage of translators and interpreters for the war on terrorism. [Note the clever, PC way the AP writer wants us to infer that these soldiers' violation of army rules really should have been overlooked in this instance. After all, their skills are in demand! Who cares what they're doing in their "personal lives"?]
Seven of the soldiers were discharged after telling superiors they are gay, and the two others got in trouble when they were caught together after curfew, said Steve Ralls, spokesman for the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, a group that defends homosexuals in the military.
Six were specializing in Arabic, two were studying Korean and one was studying Mandarin Chinese. All were at the Defense Language Institute in Monterey, the military's primary language training center. The government has aggressively recruited Arabic speakers since the Sept. 11 attacks. full story
I 'sacrificed' my career in order to stay home with our 4 kids, and now that I'm back in the job market, I can truly say that I am better at my work because of my full time mothering experience.
Besides which, our kids are far more stable and centered than their peers whose mother's 'worked.'
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Which tells me Amy's not the sharpest knife in the drawer... |
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Doesn't really matter...all I need to see is the warmth and humanity in Laura's eyes, her understanding and soothing smile and the dignity and class that shines from her every pore... |
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Oh, before I forget...BUMP!!!!!!!! |
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