She had gone through a lot. She and my family member were Believers. He was devastated and went through a time of funk himself. Her whole family, and even down to my end because we weren't that close, were wiped out by it. There are so many what if's that your mind goes through. I can't imagine how her parents, especially her mom, felt.
That said, the boyfriend is a coward. He won't fight for his girlfriend, won't try to convince her it's wrong. Won't try to find the cause, even if it costs a fortune, like my friend did. Won't stand up and say that he loves her and that they can somehow work it out. It didn't work for my friend, but it might with her. FWIW, the above scenario also played out in Holland. God brought another woman into my family member's life, and they are now married. He is happy now, and he treasures his wife. It took awhile for her to break through the pain, though. I know it was heavy sledding for awhile.
On the surface, we can say that such people are weak, or too woke, or whatever. There is a reason this woman wants to off herself, so pray fiercely that God would reveal it, so that she can be healed. Pray that the junk in her psyche from all the psychology stuff she studied would be blown out the door by the Love of Jesus. Pray for the boyfriend and the family to grow backbones. This is bad stuff, straight from the pit, but it can be redeemed. What say, Freepers? I'll pray for her. Who's in?
Amen!