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2 brides, 1 groom: Chinese wedding in Malaysia leaves locals puzzled
AsiaOne ^ | MARCH 13, 2024 | Bhavya Rawat

Posted on 03/18/2024 7:42:44 PM PDT by nickcarraway

The unconventional wedding puzzled Malaysians, who questioned its legality.

A wedding reception with a Chinese groom and two brides has left Malaysians baffled.

Some are asking: Can a non-Muslim man marry more than one woman?

The wedding reception was reportedly held in a restaurant in Sarawak on Monday (March 11), with the groom and his brides donning both Chinese and Western-style outfits.

In photos posted on Facebook, which have since been removed, the groom, a noodle stall owner, was seen holding the hands of both brides during the ceremony.

They were also shot pouring a champagne tower, cutting a five-tier wedding cake, and partaking in celebratory toasts on stage.

One woman is Chinese, while the other is of Indonesian descent, Malaysian media reported.

While some netizens congratulated the trio and wished them happiness, others questioned the legality of the union.

"Can Chinese marry two wives? In the past, it was understood that they could only marry one. Correct me if I'm mistaken," said one Facebook user.

Another netizen said: "They're filming a movie, right? It's impossible to have two wives, the law doesn't allow it."

Sarawak's Women, Childhood, and Community Wellbeing Development Minister, Datuk Sri Fatimah Abdullah clarified that non-Muslims are only permitted to marry one spouse under the country's existing civil and customary laws, reported New Straits Times.

She added that Malaysian law distinguishes between Islamic and civil marriage, and native customary marriages are recognised in Sarawak as well.

"Muslim marriages, on the other hand, follow their own set of rules," she said.

Fatimah explained that her ministry's jurisdiction does not cover matters related to marriage law enforcement and refrained from commenting further on the Chinese wedding.

She added that such issues fall under the purview of the National Registration Department.


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1 posted on 03/18/2024 7:42:44 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway

Was the wedding in Surf City?


2 posted on 03/18/2024 7:46:36 PM PDT by Army Air Corps (Four Fried Chickens and a Coke)
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To: nickcarraway

I once had a muslim lady ask me if I wanted another wife. I said one is enough...


3 posted on 03/18/2024 7:51:18 PM PDT by varyouga
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To: nickcarraway
Is this a Big Trouble in Little China remake? Do the brides have green eyes?
4 posted on 03/18/2024 8:06:21 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (Democrats' version of MAGA: Making America the Gulag Archipelago. Now with "Formal Deprogramming")
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To: varyouga
Reminds me of a great bit from "The Gods Must Be Crazy":

Steyn: How come suddenly you're an expert on women?
Mpudi: I got seven wives. How many you got?
Steyn: So why aren't you at home with your seven wives?
Mpudi: I know how to marry them. Nobody knows how to live with them.
Steyn: So, what did you marry them for?
Mpudi: Someday I have to tell you the facts of life...
5 posted on 03/18/2024 8:31:25 PM PDT by Retrofitted
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To: nickcarraway

Guilty?
Not guilty? Hmmm….
Flip a coin? Filipino?
A little help?


6 posted on 03/18/2024 8:44:25 PM PDT by Honest Nigerian
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To: nickcarraway

My memory is a bit of a blur but, they might be familiar


7 posted on 03/18/2024 9:18:58 PM PDT by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://youtu.be/wH-pk2vZG2M)
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8 posted on 03/18/2024 9:20:01 PM PDT by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://youtu.be/wH-pk2vZG2M)
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To: Vendome

BTTT!!!


9 posted on 03/18/2024 9:22:27 PM PDT by musicman (The future is just a collection of successive nows.)
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To: nickcarraway

Pretty sure the darker haired one is pregnant.


10 posted on 03/18/2024 9:22:50 PM PDT by Valpal1 (Not even the police are safe from the police!!!)
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To: nickcarraway

Personally I believe that if a man has the resources and ability to manage a team of women, well why not.


11 posted on 03/18/2024 9:27:04 PM PDT by algore
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To: nickcarraway

Well, after the one-child policy, many Chinese killed their newborn daughters because boys were more desirable (i.e.: No dowry, don’t cost money, can inherit money and property), so there is a HUGE shortage of women for marriage.

It’s gotten to the point that women are being kidnapped and forced into marriage (so, raped). Not a whole lot is being done about it, you can imagine.


12 posted on 03/18/2024 9:54:13 PM PDT by Tacrolimus1mg (Do no harm, but take no sh!t.)
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To: Tacrolimus1mg

The other thing is, even though there are so fewer women, and therefore there is “increased demand,” yet more women are declining to get married.


13 posted on 03/18/2024 10:00:03 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway

Nice.... for the first several months.


14 posted on 03/18/2024 10:07:28 PM PDT by DesertRhino (2016 Star Wars, 2020 The Empire Strikes Back, 2024... RETURN OF THE JEDI. )
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To: nickcarraway

Maybe they belong to the Mormon cult


15 posted on 03/18/2024 10:20:45 PM PDT by NWFree (Sigma male 🤪)
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To: nickcarraway

Apparently China is having somewhat of a surge of men wanting a wife and a “second wife”/concubine, popular with rich men from Hong Kong and Taiwan who move to the mainland. Bigamy is illegal in China but, as long as only one marriage is registered, the government doesn’t care all that much. They probably want more babies for a tax base anyway.


16 posted on 03/18/2024 10:24:17 PM PDT by skr (Righteousness exalteth a nation: sin is a reproach to any people. - Proverbs 14:34)
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To: algore
does that go for women too?...if they have the stamina to take on several husbands, well why not?....

if enough men "take on" more than one wife, there are fewer women available for the other men....

and that will end with chaos and violence by the left out men...

but whatever...as long as I the taxpayer isn't paying more for these hookups....

17 posted on 03/18/2024 10:31:41 PM PDT by cherry
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To: nickcarraway

Very cool wedding clothing for the two ceremonies. I don’t understand the two brides thing though.


18 posted on 03/18/2024 10:38:14 PM PDT by nutmeg (FJB)
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To: nickcarraway

They all sort of have a blank look on their face.


19 posted on 03/19/2024 7:46:44 AM PDT by skimbell
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To: cherry

one of my classmates from high school has two co-husbands, I met them at my last high school reunion.

She is a lawyer who lives in San Francisco.


20 posted on 03/19/2024 8:40:36 AM PDT by algore
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