[jocon307]

Victim blame much?

You don’t have to be married to take a walk in a State Park with your child. You sound like somebody from Iran or something.

[SamuraiScot]

it's a different, fringy kind of life you're leading if you're a mother and wander into parks with a young kid with a guy who's not your hubby

Victim blame much? You don’t have to be married to take a walk in a State Park with your child. You sound like somebody from Iran or something.

Nevertheless, kimosabe (or whatever the Persians say), my statement is true. I'm not saying such a park stroll with those personnel is directly immoral. It's that 99.99 percent of the time, people don't do it whose kid-marriage-etc. situation is normal, i.e., moral. You almost never see it. I'd guess it's because in the wild you're alone against possible danger (animal or human). In the real world, that makes the woman in the threesome more dependent on, and in the power and discretion of, the adult male.

A woman who's got a husband or an available male relative will strongly tend to choose one of them for a trek like that, for her own social ease and safety.