[JockoManning]

I agree that letting them blow is wise. But helping them pick up the pieces is also the caring thing to do.

[greeneyes]

But helping them pick up the pieces is also the caring thing to do.
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I was not suggesting otherwise. Merely that they will not be ready for that till the emotion is spent. And after that, gentle questions and discussions to figure out what explanation or approach will be most helpful with them.

[bagster]

But helping them pick up the pieces is also the caring thing to do.

Gay.

This is war, goodman.

Bagster