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He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost
NY Times ^ | September 7, 2018 | Courtney Sender

Posted on 09/08/2018 5:45:28 AM PDT by C19fan

For our first date, he took an Uber to my apartment through a winter storm. As the snow fell outside, we sat close on my couch while he talked touchingly about poetry. Two hours in, I was hoping he would kiss me, and he did. He was a sweet kisser. For an hour we sat with his hand cupped behind my ear, kissing and talking. We had met on Tinder. I was nearly 30 and he was 24, but our age gap somehow seemed a lot larger than five years. Not because he acted especially young. It was more that when it came to sex and foreplay, he acted so differently from guys my age, asking for my consent about nearly everything.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: consent; feminism; sex
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I am 100% sure the author of this piece is a Blue Check Feminist. She is complaining about her Feminist sisters attempt to create New Feminist Man. HA HA!!! Enjoy a world of Omega men in the bedroom.
1 posted on 09/08/2018 5:45:28 AM PDT by C19fan
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TAKE AWAY HIS POWER and PROMOTE HOMOSEXUALITY were the edicts of the founder of NOW.


2 posted on 09/08/2018 5:50:59 AM PDT by a fool in paradise
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So cringy to read, it’s fan fiction, or 50 shades of beta.


3 posted on 09/08/2018 5:52:44 AM PDT by IllumiNaughtyByNature (HTTP 500 - Internal Server Error)
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"but because my partners so often disappear afterward"

I'll take "Crazy Slut" for $400, Alex.

4 posted on 09/08/2018 5:53:04 AM PDT by Eagles6
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>>A culture of consent, one woman argues, should be less about self-protection and more about genuine care for the other person.

>>Because I don’t think many of us would say yes to the question “Is it O.K. if I act like I care about you and then disappear?”

The feminists created this kind of “male’. Single moms raised him to distrust his father—if he even knew his father because his mom was a cheap hook-up like this Tinder date and author. Schools stigmatized him and possibly drugged him for his masculine actions. Media declared him to be a rapist if he acts aggressive. The legal system will destroy his life over an accusation. Now they don’t like what they made?


5 posted on 09/08/2018 5:54:10 AM PDT by Bryanw92
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You should be banned from FR for posting that without a BARF alert.


6 posted on 09/08/2018 5:54:41 AM PDT by Bitman
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I stopped reading at the 20th “is it ok?” Probably a bed wetter. Actually, with the direction we’re headed, asking if it’s ok should be followed up with signed permission slips.


7 posted on 09/08/2018 5:56:21 AM PDT by albie
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So the guy gets free sex from gullible females. What’s new about that? He’s just using the “consent” angle because it’s the latest fad among clueless American women.


8 posted on 09/08/2018 5:56:45 AM PDT by txrefugee
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Without a photo it’s impossible to know what zone she’s in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XuI6GTY9eVc


9 posted on 09/08/2018 5:58:18 AM PDT by MV=PY (The Magic Question: Who's paying for it?)
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There is a way to get consent with a commitment to carrying for each other afterward. It’s called marriage.


10 posted on 09/08/2018 5:58:27 AM PDT by mongrel
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>>What’s new about that?

There’s a whole article that explains “What’s new about that?”

I applaud the guy for playing their game, scoring the win, and then dumping her without even a text. But, for every guy who wins at their game, there are a dozen (a hundred??) who give up, move back in with Mom, and live their life playing video games.


11 posted on 09/08/2018 6:01:27 AM PDT by Bryanw92
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To: MV=PY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XuI6GTY9eVc

This is SO true.

Danger Zone - “your redheads, your strippers, anyone named Tiffany...”

I have a REALLY weak spot for redheads, and met one in college - she was drop-dead gorgeous, and could drink most men under the table.
I started seeing her, and true to form, she WAS crazy.
Found out she was seeing two other guys besides me at the time that I didn’t know about.

...can still see her beautiful face with that gorgeous long red hair in my minds eye now...*sigh*


12 posted on 09/08/2018 6:09:44 AM PDT by mkleesma (`Call to me, and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.')
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The guy’s still an idiot.

He didn’t get her permission in writing.


13 posted on 09/08/2018 6:10:14 AM PDT by moovova
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So, New York Times in to soft porn now? What a publication. Now, to the core of my response. If people would simply follow Biblical teaching on sexual activity and marriage, we would have a lot less ghosts. He simply played to her liberal idea of asking consent every step of the way, delighting her, using her and then off to the next conquest (and, women are doing it too, by the way, but don't have to ask permission quite as much...lol).

These women will NEVER get what they want from a man, never. Doing it God's way is agape love. Doing these foolish womens' way is immorality, plain and simple.

And, that is what enrages them and the LGBT commmunity, being told they are wrong. They believe they can break the rules and everything will work out okay. How is that working out for you, ladies?

14 posted on 09/08/2018 6:10:22 AM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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You should be banned from FR for posting that without a BARF alert.

lolol

15 posted on 09/08/2018 6:11:18 AM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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Ugh. We’re gonna need a bigger barf bag.


16 posted on 09/08/2018 6:12:43 AM PDT by Eagles Field
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To: mkleesma

One for the women:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDq0qeOXolA


17 posted on 09/08/2018 6:16:23 AM PDT by mkleesma (`Call to me, and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.')
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I'd hit this Whorelequin Romance Rider


18 posted on 09/08/2018 6:17:51 AM PDT by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://youtu.be/wH-pk2vZGw2M)
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So let me see if I can analyze this.

She wants NSA (no string attached) sex.

But she just wants to re-attach some of the strings.

Sheesh. Women.


19 posted on 09/08/2018 6:18:52 AM PDT by Larry Lucido
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First date, in her apartment?

SLUT!


20 posted on 09/08/2018 6:22:36 AM PDT by Berlin_Freeper (alea iacta est)
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