Personal responsibility. Wedding vows. Yeah it’s someone else’s fault.
Use a little logic here. She had to go to the hospital after some leftist nutcase in Massachusetts sent the family a letter with white powder in it. She and her family are assaulted by the leftist “media” 24/7/365. How much of that bullsh*t would your wife put up with? She has five kids. You don’t think she isn’t afraid? Nuts are everywhere these days.
Divorce will make it even harder.