I have never had a birthday party in my entire life of 62 years, surprise or any other kind...........................
HaPpY BiRtHdAy, Red! And many more!
I was an only child but my birthday was usually "forgotten." I remember two. One when I turned 6 and another at my grandparents' and their two neighbor kids were invited over. When I got old enough, I'd make my own cake. Hate to say it but mother is and always was stingy.