I’ve often felt the same way about starting a business - all the grief just turns you off.
I’ve worked for small businesses in the past, and have enormous respect for people who run them and manage to stick it.
I was actually all set to do it, I was at the point of ordering equipment and the Tennessee law changed in July, unbeknownst to me. I could only sell online to people within the state. That’s not nearly big enough a customer base, since I was planning a specialty Business. More related to preppers and long term food storage. I really need the whole country to have enough people to advertise to.