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You know, I am actually starting to think something is wrong with ME! Apparently every other woman in the world is so irresable that men are constantly throwing themselves at them and just can’t help but make advances. I have been in the workforce with men for 30 years— nothing. Not so much as a glance. Am I that ugly and unappealing? I guess so.
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There is not a thing wrong with you.

I was very attractive in my younger days.

I controlled whether I received advances or not by my behavior. Where I looked, how I responded to men whether at work or at play.

If I wasn’t interested, the men knew it.

I remember that there was a specialist in our area who had been found to be sexually fondling and abusing a number of women in his practice. My PCP had referred me to this man and I had seen him three or four times. After the scandal broke he asked me whether this man had been a problem for me. I looked at the PCP and said: I am just not the kind of woman that men can abuse.

My PCP looked at me a moment, and said, Yes, that he could see that.