No it’s not okay, but her situation does deserve sympathy. I blame the men more — too many are taking sex without responsibility and take the easier option rather than marrying and supporting a family. The women need to wait until marriage as they lose out if they don’t (so they are at fault too), but I blame the men more.
Please get married people, and don’t wait until you are established. Marry when young, and as a committed team you’ll do much better spiritually, financially, emotionally, and the sex will be much better as well. Trust me I know.
Not always. My father and his first wife got married when they were young and it was an utter fiasco.
Please get married people, and don’t wait until you are established. Marry when young, and as a committed team you’ll do much better spiritually, financially, emotionally, and the sex will be much better as well. Trust me I know.
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The Surprising Benefits of Marrying Young
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2015/07/06/the-surprising-benefits-of-marrying-young/
Yes. I agree. Marry young.
That way, when the inevitable divorce finalizes, you’ll still have a long life ahead of you and decades to regain your financial footing.
Given the state of family court, the ease with which a woman can claim you harmed your child, and the expectation of women that they can contribute nothing more than a second paycheck to a marriage, how can this be men’s fault?
US women are the only group in history with the legal right to kill their own children. Men have zero say about their children. Women can be front line infantry troops on one hand, and claim they are somehow at a physical disadvantage in a marriage.
Never before have women had so much power, and if marriage is going to change, women have to cross their legs, decide raising children is more important than advancing their career, and stop looking at men as a business plan.
What I’ve noticed about women is they are very excited about the baby phase, not so much about the part where the babies develop their own personalities.
But hey, absolutely. Never have men had so little power, but suddenly now the idea is we put our foot down, treat women with respect (a tall order given they have zero self-respect), and somehow convince them marriage is a better way to go.
Here’s where robotics is going to be huge. Women can buy robots. You can change the personality and face plate so they can become the guy you want when you want it, are expert at home repair, and excrete hundred dollar bills. Penis size is variable, has fingers on the end, and vibrates. Same is true with their tongues.
Sperm, pick it up on Amazon.
Before long the entire process will go the way of the Matrix, and women might finally be happy.
Oh, wait. Women are never happy, because women never get to the point where they allow themselves to like themselves. Ever.
And that’s sad.
I blame the WOMEN!
Why? So many give away their bodies freely, even on first meeting.
Why should a man marry when he can have all the sex he wants and needs (and more) with zero commitment? And enjoy variety at no cost or obligation?
Women are reaping what they’ve sowed. They were sold a bill of goods with the concept of free/no obligation sex and they are now griping about the results.
And for a man, sex outside of marriage doesn’t have the restraints of sex in marriage: in marriage - if she’s not in the mood - forget it. You ain’t getting any.
In marriage, for the sex to be good and frequent, a man has to LOVE HIS WIFE in every way conceivable. And most men have no idea what that means. Thoughtfulness, consideration, self-sacrifice, affection, tenderness, and more than anything, a willingness to LISTEN whenever she wants to talk - without trying to FIX things. A wife spells LOVE from her husband with one word: LISTEN.
Love in marriage is very costly for a man.
Why should a man pay that price when all the sex he wants is out there for free?
Women - face it. IT’S YOUR OWN FAULT.
The reason men are not as enthused about marriage as they used to be, is that the cost has gone up, and the value has gone down. As a result, more men are going "No sale".
The cost has gone up: most divorces are initiated by women, and too often it's for no better reason than the wife feels unhappy in the marriage. What the man can then look forward to is to be stripped of a large chunk of his assets, have to pay child support for many years, and see his kids used as a weapon against him.
Meanwhile, single life for unmarried men in their 30's and early 40's has gotten better. If he has a decent income, and stays reasonably fit, he can have his pick of women who are becoming increasingly desperate to nail down a guy before the woman reaches her expiration date. The women he dates will generally be agreeable to keeping him sexually satisfied. Meanwhile, he hears from his married friends about how many are lucky to have sex once a month. Why marry, if marriage removes the woman's biggest incentive to try to keep him happy, and changes the dynamic to HIM having to try hard to keep HER happy, so she won't rape him in divorce court?
I disagree. I know a lot of men who would love to find a woman they could love and build a life with, but they expect the same love and respect in return. Too many young women today are all about the struggle. It’s all about them. They are shallow people. They spend their youth marching, protesting, denigrating “the patriarchy”, bar hopping and hanging out with like minded women and then wonder why in the thirties they’re alone and miserable. There is also the quest for Mr. Perfect to the exclusion of Mr. Good. And finally, I will put some blame on both the men and women here, as my old man used to say, ‘Why buy the cow when the milk is free?’. Feminist have convinced these young women that they can screw like rabbits with no consequences as long as Abortion and birth control are free and available and young horny men have gladly taken advantage of that. In my day if you wanted sex you had to, as Beyoncé says, put a ring on it. It made for a better chance of love and commitment from both people.
'Twas always thus...men need to be responsible for their choices and actions. Women? Not so much.
She's a selfish person. That doesn't wear well in relationship.
“I blame the men more — too many are taking sex without responsibility and take the easier option rather than marrying and supporting a family.”
Oh sure, blame men for the results of feminism. Because we totally instigated that whole thing.