Amen!
And what is she teaching her daughter about honesty?
You are correct Red this is not very honest. If she’s not honest about this what else is she not honest about?
If she were honest with herself she would not she can’t be a “father” to this child. I don’t care what people say “I’m a mother and father to my child”. No you are not!! There are only jobs men can do and only jobs women can do. This is why it takes a mother and father to raise children.