I have no experience with construction, but I love the look of wood counters, and I’m sure there are either types of wood - if they’re available to you - or finishes for wood that would be more durable than others.
I imagine a google search would bring up some info; a lot of the home-improvement magazines contain info about materials used in homes that are featured, or you could contact the builder of a home you see that has a feature you like.
Pinterest is my friend in this, but bloggers usually post their experiences soon after implementing the change. I don’t personally know anyone who has used this unorthodox approach. I have a plan to use standard 2x boards, stain them and finish with Waterlox.
I’m hoping that a yearly application of Waterlox is enough to protect it.
The make tile to look lie wood flooring now, that could be an option as well.