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Is This Sign Sexist? Debate Breaks Out Over North Carolina billboard
KFOR ^ | 2/22

Posted on 02/23/2017 11:25:28 AM PST by nickcarraway

It's just seven words long, but that's enough to start a firestorm: "Real men provide. Real women appreciate it."

A billboard containing the words sits along an interstate in North Carolina, and it's inflaming passions.

Some people find the message sexist.

A group of those who don't like the billboard's message plan to hold a protest this weekend.

Molly Grace said she's never organized a protest before, but she's putting one together now after seeing the billboard earlier this week.

Grace, who owns a clothing and lifestyle store in Winston-Salem, sais the point of the protest isn't to bring the billboard down (although she wouldn't be sad to see it go) but to rail against the message behind it.

"We are not protesting the right to have a billboard or express a message on it," she told CNN. "This is only a protest against the type of thinking that creates a message like that."

Grace, who took to Facebook to organize the protest, feels the message promotes patriarchy and sexism and an antiquated way of thinking about women.

"We are protesting the implied demand that women be silent and appreciate, regardless of whatever circumstances, their role as non-providers," she wrote in the post.

Or, as she later told CNN, that women should "shut up and smile and be grateful for what this man does for you."

Originally, the protest was going to be held Sunday morning directly under the billboard, but that would have protesters standing directly next to a busy interstate so, for safety's sake, Grace is moving it to somewhere in downtown Winston-Salem.

So far, a few hundred people have said on Facebook they will attend.

"Just the messenger"

So, who put the billboard up?

Bill Whiteheart knows, but he can't reveal who it is.

Whiteheart, president of Whiteheart Outdoor Advertising, said the group that rented the billboard wants to stay anonymous, for now.

Whiteheart would say the billboard cost the group about $2,000 and was put up Friday morning.

The billboard is rented for 30 days but can be renewed to run longer if the group desires.

He stressed the message on the billboard shouldn't be confused as coming from his company.

"We're not supportive of or in opposition to the message," he told CNN. "We're just the messenger."


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To: nickcarraway

No, it isn’t sexist.

“Girls rule”, a meme I’ve seen on t-shirts for girls, is sexist.


41 posted on 02/23/2017 12:04:53 PM PST by simpson96
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To: Jim 0216

I think that women should not be upset. It says nothing about them. If anything a house husband should be mad. At least if he’s the thin skinned type. The billboard does not say that women can’t provide. It says nothing about a women producing, they can produce as well.

The only thing it says about women is that they should appreciate a man providing. Not sure why people would have a problem with that. It does not say that all he has to do is provide. It just says for that point, a women should be appreciative.


42 posted on 02/23/2017 12:05:08 PM PST by poinq
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To: rovenstinez

To many women, the man IS the bacon.


43 posted on 02/23/2017 12:07:48 PM PST by 353FMG (AMERICA FIRST.)
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To: Envisioning

Here she is, top left in blue dress:

http://npaper-wehaa.com/yes-weekly/2015/09/09/#?article=2598074


44 posted on 02/23/2017 12:17:20 PM PST by Carriage Hill ( Poor demoncrats haven't been this mad, since the Republicans took their slaves away.)
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To: Tax-chick

It’s very vague.


45 posted on 02/23/2017 12:18:25 PM PST by nickcarraway
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To: rovenstinez

the MAN that was supposed to bring home the bacon.
= = =

Is that the underlying mooslime problem?


46 posted on 02/23/2017 12:23:59 PM PST by Scrambler Bob (Brought to you from Turtle Island, otherwise known as 'So-Called North America')
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To: nickcarraway
The sentiment on the sign reflects one of the basic realities of Western civilization. Those who protest demonstrate their problems with reality. (I would wage a good deal that most of those who rally to protest--probably upwards of 90%--voted for a totally corrupt former First Lady for President, despite her obvious lack of qualifications to so serve.

Shucks. I suspect that this group or protestors would actually admit to having done so!!

47 posted on 02/23/2017 12:27:00 PM PST by Ohioan
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To: nickcarraway

If there are criteria other than biology for a “real man” or “real woman,” that seems to me to open the possibility that a person can be something other than his/her biological sex.

Perhaps the upset lady will think it through and realize that the billboard renters are really on her (leftist) side!


48 posted on 02/23/2017 12:27:26 PM PST by Tax-chick ("I prefer to think of myself as ... civilized." ~Jonathan Q. Higgins)
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To: nickcarraway
It is vague enough that you can read what ever you want into it.

So if she is seeing it as only about monetary things then it says a great deal about her.

49 posted on 02/23/2017 12:28:39 PM PST by Harmless Teddy Bear (Not a Romantic, not a hero worshiper and stop trying to tug my heartstrings. It tickles! (pink bow))
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To: Tax-chick
It could be read as supportive of just about anything including Ralph Lauren fashions.

Be VERY funny if that turned out to be who put it out.

50 posted on 02/23/2017 12:33:06 PM PST by Harmless Teddy Bear (Not a Romantic, not a hero worshiper and stop trying to tug my heartstrings. It tickles! (pink bow))
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To: rlmorel
Mmmm...milk and eggs...milk and bacon...milk and...
Udderly delicious!
51 posted on 02/23/2017 12:33:26 PM PST by Bratch ("The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." - Edmund Burke)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

That would be very interesting.


52 posted on 02/23/2017 12:34:05 PM PST by Tax-chick ("I prefer to think of myself as ... civilized." ~Jonathan Q. Higgins)
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To: nickcarraway

NO. The sign is a statement of Chivalry.
Chivalry is a warrior’s code and only practiced by warriors.


53 posted on 02/23/2017 12:36:15 PM PST by BuffaloJack (The Democrats haven't been this aggitated since Lincoln took away their slaves.)
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To: Tax-chick
He is the only fashion designer I could think of that isn't homosexual.

And that is sad.

Also one of the few who makes dresses I can wear. Not that I can afford anything in the collection you understand. Not unless it shows up at the Salvation Army and that nice clerk saves it for me!

54 posted on 02/23/2017 12:44:54 PM PST by Harmless Teddy Bear (Not a Romantic, not a hero worshiper and stop trying to tug my heartstrings. It tickles! (pink bow))
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To: nickcarraway

That’s how it is in our household. The appreciation goes both ways because we both work so hard.
Feminists don’t understand how to be appreciative, hard working or grateful. That is probably who is pissed off about this billboard.


55 posted on 02/23/2017 12:48:29 PM PST by Trillian
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To: nickcarraway

I think there is a lot of truth to that but I think they ought to take that one down and put one up that says “Does this sign make my butt look fat?”


56 posted on 02/23/2017 12:49:19 PM PST by MagnoliaB (You can't always get what you want but if you try sometime you might find, you get what you need.)
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To: carriage_hill

Not quite what I expected. A woman all tatted up like that while wearing the dress she’s wearing is anomalous. Trying to be a bitchy feminist and woman at the same time - she’s not pulling it off.


57 posted on 02/23/2017 12:53:27 PM PST by raybbr (That progressive bumper sticker on your car might just as well say, "Yes, I'm THAT stupid!")
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

I love my Salvation Army store!


58 posted on 02/23/2017 12:57:13 PM PST by Tax-chick ("I prefer to think of myself as ... civilized." ~Jonathan Q. Higgins)
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To: nickcarraway

I yearn for the times where men were men, and women were grateful!


59 posted on 02/23/2017 12:58:31 PM PST by grobdriver (Where is Wilson Blair when you need him?)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

Not saying that it is, but Ralph Lauren has a large and growing presence in the vicinity of Winston-Salem. All manner of distribution, customer service, even some product management and product marketing.


60 posted on 02/23/2017 12:59:13 PM PST by RegulatorCountry
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