When I see things like “both wave and particle nature at the same time” it nearly makes me cry. The fact of the matter is they aren’t either particles or waves but the same thing appears as both in this dimensional construct. They are dimensional phenomenon. I have been saying it for more than 20 years. I finally got tired of taking the more conventional approach and wrote a novel about a guy who figured it out. See my profile page if you want to read a pretty good fiction story on the subject.
I suspect I might agree with you.
I have long been bothered by this very issue, and have begun writing my own science fiction novel that tangentially addresses this.
I will check out your book.