“she said that she would have been alright with it if he had stayed above her waist!!”
Exactly what I just heard on the audio. . . so. . . .she lets him think it’s ok, and then she decides it’s too much. Where on earth have we heard that before? That alone is enough to discredit her. I am sick to death of blaming the man when the woman lets it go initially. We used to have a name for that, which I’ll not repeat here.
Unfortunately in todays hook up world, where women are many times more agressive then men, it’s very difficult to even know if there are boundaries.
I recall a man who showed interest in a gathering ....he told me later he was “waiting” for me to make a move....and that certainly wasn’t going to happen. But as he shared later, he didn’t quite know what to do!...so he did nothing!
In time he said that I brought out of him things he didn’t know he had in him because woman were so easy today....said he never had so much fun with all his clothes on! LOLOLOL...