It should not be up to strangers!!
It should be up to kin and friends.
My grandfather on mom’s side was a brutally cruel mafioso father. To be honest though, there’s no real correlation.
I’ve known Many gangsters who treat their kids like gold. Too much!!
Anyway, so my uncle Harry (WWI suicide squad) went after him with a gun for beating my grandmother. That helped a lot more than any Social worker could have.
It should be up to kin and friends.
We have no disagreement...
Unless the whole family group are completely dysfunctional, which happen at times...