Erin Pizzey founded the first battered women's shelter in the UK in 1971. Over the years, she encountered many women like the one you described, who can't seem to leave their attackers, and wrote a book about it, Prone to Violence ( Part of it available here as a PDF ). She noticed that some women are addicted to the "adrenaline rush" of being with violent men, and will deliberately see how close to the edge they can push them.
Her observations made her unpopular with many feminists.
Thank you PaPaBear3625 for sharing the pdf file. I downloaded it and will read it in detail. This is a subject very dear to me.
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My comment above:
The number one attraction in relationships... this is what creates the chemistry of attraction...
We are attracted toward individuals whose underlying persona is similar to someone with whom we have unresolved conflict.
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Attraction is what creates the synchronistic events that provide us the opportunity to heal the wounds in our soul.
Generally we are not angry for the reason we think we are as we are projecting our past unresolved issues or complexes onto the person we are with as a surrogate. Problem is, in the perfect dance of relationships, our partners are doing the same thing with us!!!
I have a very unique ability in that I can read the stored memories of people since conception in detail, without them ever saying one word. I feel stored memories of past events physically in a field that surrounds the physical body.
Conception memories are stored about 15 ft from the physical body. As I walk toward a person, their entire life is there, in reverse sequence with the current memories close to the physical body.
If a person closes their eyes and thinks of their current conflict relationship, I walk toward them, beginning about 15 ft from them and when my hand hits the memory that vibrates at the same frequency as the one they are thinking about, it pushes them over, often right off their feet.
(It has to do with amygdala stimulation of subconscious emotional memories that creates a response similar to a vestibular malfunction.)
If you have ever heard a person say that “My life flashed before my eyes.” That is what happens to many at death as their conscious awareness is no longer limited to the physical body and it expands in reverse sequence through the same memories that I read. I feel them as physical objects.
Since a person has many similar relationships in their life, it is important that I locate the very first one as that is the perceptual programming event that establishes the pattern of behavior though their life. I merely remove the negative emotion attached to that perceptual programming event memory in their field and presto, all similar events that created trauma in a person’s life are instantly gone, forever.
I read stored memories similar to the way x-rays read bones.
I’ve found this ability also works if a person thinks of their current medical illness. I walk back and find the memory that either created or predisposed the person to the illness. It’s a simple process and only takes a few minutes.
If I were to work with the woman who wrote this article, it would set her free of her emotional shackles to live a healthy life and help stabilize her children’s lives. It’s what I do every day. The results are instant, profound and life changing.
I’m just scratching the surface with this explanation. It’s really not me doing it, but is done through me, mostly in prayer. I don’t sell or promote religion, but have had many atheists leave my office no longer an atheist.