You beat me to it. If it doesn’t “work out” IOW if he doesn’t do all that I demand, the gov’t will step in and yank his wallet for me.
People who demand Mr. or Ms. Perfect, probably have the self view that they, themselves, are perfect. And to marry anyone less than perfect, would be a mismatch.
.....says a lot about the mind of such a person.
Best for all if such people are required to wear a sign saying “avoid!”