https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/help/13853/windows-lifecycle-fact-sheet
If Windows Update is broken in Vista, try the solution here:
http://www.thewindowsclub.com/windows-update-not-working
After you clear out the SoftwareDistribution folder and start Windows Update again, let it run its "Checking for updates..." for a very long time, at least eight hours, perhaps much longer. Eventually the list of updates will probably appear.
Thanks.