This is so true and it is a therapy, a sounding board. Bonnie Raite has a song that I always thought smart called Woman Be Wise. Woman be wise, keep your mouth shut, don’t advertise your man. Don’t go around bragging about all the good things he really can do. If you talk about your baby, say that he’s so fine, Lord honey I just might get up and try to make him mine. Woman be wise, keep your mouth shut, don’t advertise your man. Treat yourself to the entire set of lyrics. So perhaps women are also using reverse psychology.
It isn’t a therapy. If she says that all day long, there is no way she treats him good later. The mind doesn’t work that way, to gripe and bitch about how much someone is, and then to adore them when you are with them.
If he finds this out, he should protect and hide all the assets he can and divorce her.