proper family formation is next to impossible with LOOSE MEN, improperly raised to not respect themselves and women.
can’t just look at one side of the problem.
There is absolutely no real reason why a man cannot remain a virgin until marriage, other than he thinks little of himself and women.
Statistics don't bear this out. A Christian blogger by pseudonym of Dalrock pulled together family stability by sexually partners and a the number of sexual patters a women has is 4 times more likely to derail a marriage than men's sexual count. A women who has 2 sexual partners(including her husband) is 50% more likely to end in divorce. A similar rate among men requires 4 partners to achieve parity.
Which is why all historical cultures are obsessed by female purity and barley mention men screwing around unless they're sleeping with other men's wives and daughters. It's just not nearly as important vigin brides.