” Suddenly, the whole issue just goes away.”
No, it doesn’t. The problem isn’t guys using the women’s room, but a society that deliberately ignores obvious and fundamental reality.
In the NEW story of “The Emperor With No Clothes”, the boy who points out he is naked is beaten to death to prevent embarrassing the Emperor!
A society that rejects reality cannot survive.
The people imposing all of this don't want us to survive. This is war by a different name.