I still think that if the woman’s in-laws want to keep an 800 year old tradition, they’re entitled to do so. She has the entire rest of the year to eat beans. It sounds as if a day off to show a little deference to her husband’s family might do her some good.
Sounds as if she ditched Jesus Christ the incarnate Son of God and Savior of the world without a problem. But she has to remind her in-laws she’s a wise Latina every moment, every day, every meal, trampling on their traditions...