Got bullied in school by one person. Foolishly ignored my many warnings. Then the day came, said person’s face met a locker and then the concrete floor several times. Never had a problem after that.
Never sure what the result of any first fight is. I only know what the result of the 2nd fight will be if I get beaten.
had problems with bullies from grade school all the way till 10th grade it stopped the day I took one of my bully’s and rammed his head into a locker repeatedly . suddenly after coming back from a weeks suspension no one bothered me. I had made the mistake of telling everyone I was a pacifist when I was in grade school honestly tried to stick to the philosophy. the one thing I learned was that if anyone thinks you wont fight back you will be gone after by those that are looking for an easy target. if some one hits you make sure you hit them harder it will stop the other guy who did not hit you.
Growing up white in the black Bronx taught me how to fight. Never standing down got me alot of respect back in those days. I was the only white at a lot of black parties but things are different today. A fight will more likely get you ganged up on or shot.