[Mears]

I’m probably going to get reamed here but when I had my kids I preferred being alone to get my schedule(?)going.

I was glad when he left for work and wouldn’t have wanted him around for 2 months.

Sorry guys.

.

[luckystarmom]

When my twins were born, my parents gave me a nanny for a few months. I had a 2 year old also. She was much better than my parents or husband. She did what I wanted. I may do that for my kids when they have their own kids.

[riri]

Fully agree. I also didn't need him in the delivery room trying to feed me ice chips. I was glad he was there, present, etc. don't get me wrong. I wouldn't want to be one of those people where the father missed the delivery because he was at his weekly bro squad poker game.

On the needy scale I am about a two.

[trebb]

I’m probably going to get reamed here but when I had my kids I preferred being alone to get my schedule(?)going.

I was glad when he left for work and wouldn’t have wanted him around for 2 months.

Sorry guys.

No apology needed for most of us - you talk like you're a man's (not a metro-sexual or other such perversion of manhood) kind of woman....