[ken in texas]

... incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men

In other words, Andrea, you're a bitch and no fun to be around.

[cuban leaf]

Sounds like she’d be a good f**k buddy, but that’s about it.

[warsaw44]

... incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men

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No man worth his salt finds arrogance an attractive quality in a friend or girlfriend. It has nothing to do with being intimidated - it has everything to do with being repulsed.

She's convinced herself that the problems she faces with men could not possibly originate from her personality.

Sad little girl who never heard the word ‘ no ‘ from her parents.

[Tucker39]

I’m wondering how much her fetchins up influenced what she is today? We’re pretty sure that Obola became the narcissistic asshat he is by being coddled and given everything he wanted as a child.

But if she weren’t so PROUD of being a misfit, she could probably repent of it and be a relatively normal person.