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To: HamiltonJay
the topic is women being alone, or not finding Mr Right, and that to me is not so much a function of their sexual pasts as it is a general function of their very distorted view of men and relationships in general.

Absolutely correct.

Guys are guys, they can love a woman beyond measure and still wind up being accused of objectifying them or some other overly sensitive nonsense because the woman only has feminist dogma nonsense as her perspective. And I do agree many women miss a great life partner because they decide they aren’t ready for that yet in their life, because they are 28 and still have plans, only by the time they decide they are ready they are 38 or 43 and that guy found someone who was ready, as had most the other guys serious about building a life with someone.

Personally, I think anyone over 40, male or female who has never been married is going to be a tough person to wed, by that state in their lives, most folks are pretty set in their ways and if they have not had to compromise with other folks about their lives to that point its going to be a very difficult transition to married life where compromise and selflessness are required to make it work.

Spot on. I have seen that in DC.

182 posted on 09/21/2015 10:55:35 AM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: KC_Conspirator

Marriage is not compromise and selflessness. I speak from making the mistake once.

It is being willing to hold off marriage until you find a woman who is all you want who wants all you are.

The biggest lie is that a man should marry his own age. A man in his 40s, if he has finally established himself in a career...such as doctor/lawyer...he should not have an issue with marrying a woman half his age. Women lose their child bearing qualities as they age. If you do not want children, don’t marry.


183 posted on 09/21/2015 11:04:39 AM PDT by Sensei Ern (FUBO! and John Bonehead and Mitch McConman, too!)
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